[orapope]

I can say I'm sorta the same way...you gotta just relize that theres ALOT more to life than cars and music. Ima total spaz when it comes to females too. This is what I've been doing lately:
-When your out in public, take the headphones off.
-When someone says hello, speak back, or say hello first if they smile at you (if your brave or interested enough spark a convo, i would but im not that social of a guy)
-When with friends, your with friends.
-Draw and get into other things besides cars. I.E-I'm very interested in architecture, Art, fashion (esp shoes, and starting my clothing brand), music, poetry, rapping, history, my own spiritual beliefs, seeing the world and the underground of american politics.
-You gotta shake off the laziness and procrastination(i no sp.) when your body/etc tells you "i dont feel like it" get up and do it anyway.
- Change starts within yourself, you have to decide to change yourself, dont wait too late when everyone stops dealing with you.
-and to close with a line from one of my poems "...gotta start sky diving and stop bungee jumping". just take a shot in the dark.