I wouldn't even bother with your explanation on why the weight limit. Seriously though, Women have an issue with it. I hear this all the time. They post a picture of their face and say they are a little heavy. Then when you see them they are monsters. Having your weight limit in there is just fine imo. Makes it so that you don't get that heavy set people replying to you. Sure they may not like it, but that isn't you who are looking for! The people that are in your range that see that, I am sure wouldn't have an issue with it. I am sure that they too are not wanting to find some heavy guy show up at their table saying their name. Good luck with the online dating. It is surprising at how many of these things actually work out. Heck, I know someone who even got a mail order basically from the Philippine's and they honestly love each other.