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**NaMbessemab** · 03-17-2007, 01:59 PM

No it wasn't planned, after considering drowning myself I've kinda come round to the Idea, although I'm currently still drinking and it's 5:45am.

My girlfriend does not agree with Abortion so It's a done deal.

There is always adoption. I know at that point it might be very hard for her to let go and she might feel like she’s doing the wrong thing but honestly if you guys don’t think 100% that you’re ready for this (including financially) then it’s far far better for the child if you do go the adoption route.

If the kid is going to grow up and have one of you split within the first year or two and then see a number of different partners come and go or if he’s going to have to be shuffled off to friends or relatives while both of you guys work and ends up moving around every few months because you can’t afford rent or something then please please please give it to a family that is working their ass off to be granted a child through adoption. A family that (while not always) is probably financially ready to provide everything for a child and is a solid family unit ready to stay one for the next 18 years to provide a strong foundation for a child.

Although, if you guys were thinking about getting married anyway (or at least now plan to) and think you can handle this, congrats on the kid! Hope everything goes well!

Oh wait, have to yell at you guys for not going for the morning after pill first though! Why didn’t you or her go get that pill as soon as you had sex and realized the condom broke or didn’t work (or just didn’t use one) !?! If it is taken within 72 hours you have a really good chance (like 85% or something, higher if taken sooner) of not getting pregnant. You can’t give me that “my girlfriend wouldn’t have gone for it, she’s against abortion" stuff either since it’s not an abortion, it just prevents implantation!

In the US one of these pills is marketed as “Plan B” and is available in most places without a prescription. Actually though, most birth control can be used as emergency contraception by taking larger doses when in a real pinch, check out http://not-2-late.com for more info on which products work and at what dosage.

Ok, all done

03-17-2007, 01:59 PM	#29
NaMbessemab Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 433 Senior Member	No it wasn't planned, after considering drowning myself I've kinda come round to the Idea, although I'm currently still drinking and it's 5:45am. My girlfriend does not agree with Abortion so It's a done deal. There is always adoption. I know at that point it might be very hard for her to let go and she might feel like she’s doing the wrong thing but honestly if you guys don’t think 100% that you’re ready for this (including financially) then it’s far far better for the child if you do go the adoption route. If the kid is going to grow up and have one of you split within the first year or two and then see a number of different partners come and go or if he’s going to have to be shuffled off to friends or relatives while both of you guys work and ends up moving around every few months because you can’t afford rent or something then please please please give it to a family that is working their ass off to be granted a child through adoption. A family that (while not always) is probably financially ready to provide everything for a child and is a solid family unit ready to stay one for the next 18 years to provide a strong foundation for a child. Although, if you guys were thinking about getting married anyway (or at least now plan to) and think you can handle this, congrats on the kid! Hope everything goes well! Oh wait, have to yell at you guys for not going for the morning after pill first though! Why didn’t you or her go get that pill as soon as you had sex and realized the condom broke or didn’t work (or just didn’t use one) !?! If it is taken within 72 hours you have a really good chance (like 85% or something, higher if taken sooner) of not getting pregnant. You can’t give me that “my girlfriend wouldn’t have gone for it, she’s against abortion" stuff either since it’s not an abortion, it just prevents implantation! In the US one of these pills is marketed as “Plan B” and is available in most places without a prescription. Actually though, most birth control can be used as emergency contraception by taking larger doses when in a real pinch, check out http://not-2-late.com for more info on which products work and at what dosage. Ok, all done
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