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**suidinguilelf** · 11-17-2008, 04:35 AM

Tango-san,

Divorce is a big step. How long have you been married? Many people make the mistake of divorcing when they really haven't given themselves long enough to get used to life as a couple. I think it takes 5-8 years to get through all the kinks. Is she willing to reconcile? Does she want the divorce? Will you try counseling? Those are all important, and if she is willing to reconcile and counseling is an option then its in your best interest to work on this and stay married. Kendo is all about honor and discipline. There is no honor in divorce.

The money in the divorce will end up being the least of your worries. You'll regret this divorce in the years to come.

-Mia

11-17-2008, 04:35 AM	#14
suidinguilelf Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 409 Senior Member	Tango-san, Divorce is a big step. How long have you been married? Many people make the mistake of divorcing when they really haven't given themselves long enough to get used to life as a couple. I think it takes 5-8 years to get through all the kinks. Is she willing to reconcile? Does she want the divorce? Will you try counseling? Those are all important, and if she is willing to reconcile and counseling is an option then its in your best interest to work on this and stay married. Kendo is all about honor and discipline. There is no honor in divorce. The money in the divorce will end up being the least of your worries. You'll regret this divorce in the years to come. -Mia
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