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This man is such a pansy, his relationship with her sholuld have never gone that far

Good point.

But the problem is nearly any reasonable action by him could have been grounds for taking the kids away (its heard in the videos that the wife's sister is a social worker and has a bit of a hold over him). The cluster**** that is VAWA also has him by the balls so that is a risky strategy, the fallout if it failed is immense.