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i couldn't agree more with the op.

david has always said that the universe gives you more of whatever you want to run away from. so if you happen to have insecurity issues, then those issues will pop up more frequently in your life. i myself had a overbearing mother who in turn caused me to have co-dependency issues with just about anybody i made friends with. it wasn't until i woke up and realized what my problems were, that i acknowledged and dealt with the problem in me. you are your own single greatest doctor/psychologist, it just need the knowledge to know what fire signals to look for.

i agree with the op's statement "you don't get the dog that you want, you get the dog that you need." i believe that you are tested on a daily basis, because the universe wants to see your buttons pushed. this entire life is meant for spiritual growth, because that is what the higher self wants for you. it's hard to step outside of your circle and see the forest for the trees so to speak. however if something has a emotional charge and sets your emotions in a chaos, then it might mean you need to investigate those feelings on a deeper level.

~peace