[FourEsters]

I am wondering, in general, would it just be better to try to figure out the answer for yourself in Kendo by observing other high ranking kendoka, (instead of just asking a question?)

I find that, even when I ask questions, I still don't really understand (after I get the answer). I just have a feeling it might be better if I observed more, asked questions less.

Listen more carefully to sensei. You'll probably find they've been saying the same thing over, and over again; but it's not registering on you. One day you'll hear them say something and it will click.