[VastDrura]

Divorce his ass and take him to the cleaners. Whatever he has left he can share with his "admirers"

[Sukadrukanga]

Well if he didn't he might as well have. He betrayed her, and that's what counts. Although I guess actual sex would have been worse.

[kucheravka]

Hang him high.

Has he explained what he was going to say to the little woman when he showed up in nine months with a baby? "Hey honey, look what I found!"

[viepedorlella]

In reality I don't really think it was as much about having a baby as it was......well you know. He says it was just a one time thing, curiosity just for fun.

[addifttiest]

Well maybe it was. Maybe it was one time cu riosity type of thing. Could be.

You need to evaluate how much you love him and if you can trust him from now on and if he feels commited to you. Don't make any fast decisions and include him in on it.

[ClorrerVeks]

My words exactly when I heard that! Have to run to work, will be interesting to see this when I get back. Here's my thought if you don't have trust in a marriage then really what do you have? He broke her trust so can she ever really trust him again. Personally if it was me....I wouldn't, but that's just me.

[jobsfancy]

I have to wonder if Rah will ban Tia for posting her friend's husband's emails...

(Please don't do that Tia.)

[clorkergo]

advertised for a woman to have a child with him and then give the baby to him?

i think this is one of the most lamest excuses for cheating...

[beriarele]

LEAVE HIS ASS

[gastabegree]

"I did it for you, honey, I was trying to make us a baby!"

Yeah, right. He was clearly trying to cheat. Did he? Technically, no. But that doesn't make it any less reprehensible.

Trying to use the wife's reproductive issues as the reason/excuse is totally lame and disrespectful of their partnership. And if you don't make legal preparations for adoption/possession of the child prior to conception, you're in a potential legal quagmire. His only possible defense is claiming world-class stupidity. And considering he left these emails in an account she can access, you can make a case for that.

[SaraKonradtt]

Originally posted by MRT144
it is cheating because he would have gone through with it if he hadnt been caught. We have a winner. Close the thread!!!

[kiosokkn]

Originally posted by MRT144
it is cheating because he would have gone through with it if he hadnt been caught. "Attempted murder? What is that really? Do they give a nobel prize for attempted chemistry?"

[NofFoomiTot]

Originally posted by Pekka
So I think the proper thing to do is not to jump into conclusions too fast. It's second hand story at this point, divorce is a big deal, and nothing happened, except some e-mails. We don't know what else has happened etc.

I'd say it's not the tiem to jump into conclusions. It doesn't look good, but I'm not going to contribute to the "LEAVE HIS ASS"-bandwagon with this little amount of facts. qft.

funny how these guys take her side. she's snooping into his emails. The marriage is in trouble before all this happened. I'm not saying it's alright for the guy to cheat, but there is little point in forcing something that is not there.

[sirmzereigMix]

Wow go to work for a few hours and you guys go to it. Let's see where to begin. Wifeypooo has his password to his email as he has her password it isn't that unusual for either one of them to go into mail as I understand. When he was confronted she said they got into quite a heated argument regarding it and he said he wasn't hiding anything since it was on the computer they both used and he hadn't mentioned the emails cause he didn't really think anything about it. She told me that she saw one of the pictures of the girls who responded and (from a mans perspective) a blonde hottie.

See to me why not just inquire about seragocy (sp?) or something to that effect. Why go looking for a woman? And I could be wrong, God knows I have been many times before but it's the intent thing that bothers me. What's to keep him from doing it again but just being alot more careful so she wouldn't know it. I think on some level yeah, it's a form of cheating. He broke her trust.

[GetsTan]

Originally posted by Dis


we all know about those friend stories, they are really talking about themselves (except for my friend stories ) And this one you great big twit! Nope my husband isn't that stupid he knows that's an automatic deal breaker. Shite if he had done that we wouldn't even be talking about it because I'd be to busy throwing his stuff out the front door.

All you really have in a marriage is trust. That's it. The lovey dovey stuff is great and working together is great but you have to have trust plain and simple. Without that you have nothing and if you can't trust the other person then you're going to continually go around picking apart every single thing they say looking for some way to catch them again and that's no way to live.

And seriously Dis love ya' but since when have I ever had a problem coming here and spilling my guts about what ever was going on in my life? Don't you think if it was really me you would of had every flippin' goooory detail

[Bbjhjxfy]

Originally posted by MRT144
do they give a nobel prize for attempted analogies that suck and fail? Did Sideshow Bob win a Nobel?

[LClan439]

Stranger things have happened: They regularly give out degrees in filosofee.

[Tauntenue]

She read his e-mail? That's totally out of order. He should divorce her.

[GreefeWrereon]

*Zoid gets on the "LEAVE HIS ASS"-bandwagon

[nicktender]

Cheating is a the bare minimum, he is yoked or is supposed to be yoked for life with what should be his heart beat.

He should respect her and discuss prior to doing anything major.

It was not like "Sweetie, I have great news, been checking into various options, for "X" Dollars we can have a child with my seed, what do you think? It is strictly anonymous and no one will know anyone on a personal level"

He tried to get some under the low-life dastardly disguise of helping overcome an obstacle.

He is a Weinie and as started here, probaly has cheated already or at the minimum, cheated with his heart on her.

Sad indeedy, he is a sorry S.).B. and because of lowlifes like him, the rest of mankind gets lumped into that bin.