[TeveVikep]

Originally posted by Heresson
try other possibilities Like what, horses?

[huerta]

Originally posted by Lorizael


Like what, horses? bananas

[Varbaiskkic]

You have given Jane every opportunity. You've made your move. If she doesn't respond, it's time to back off. Stop calling her. Don't be rude or anything, but stop chasing her. If she's actually interested she'll start to make moves on you


in professional term, what you've got is called Oneitis. As in, you think she's the only one. **** that.

ignore her, until you feel like it.

if she doesn't suddenly miss you in her life, and try to chase you back, then chances are that you never meant anything.

especially after you made yourself quite clear.

[primaveraloler]

I think we should have a forum for propositions of new forums as well

[oxinsnepe]

We need a birthdays subforum as well...

[fygESytT]

The rule of thumb is best window for ****ing a chick is with in a week or two of meeting her so if you've waited years and have been put on the friends ladder then you're already at a major disadvantage. You either need to make a major explicit move immediately or give it up and find other game.

[NarhozNic]

Originally posted by Lorizael
Lorizael's having girl issues. Shocker! If you're having issues with her, you probably don't want to try the Shocker.

[Savviioor]

Originally posted by Arrian
Something to bear in mind when taking advice about women from me:

1) I've had 2 serious girlfriends, and there was a third who would've been, but I was too ****ed up in the head for that to happen at the time. Which probably saved me, but that's another matter.
2) #2 is my wife.
3) My wife hunted me down.
4) #1 was the one I chased, and though I did at one point "stand tall" (successfully, leading directly to her becoming my gf), I now believe that me chasing her left me at a disadvantage in the relationship that I never quite dug myself out of.

So on the one hand I'm happily married. I have, in fact, attracted women. However, my experience is quite limited, and my feeble attempts pre-college were often much as you describe (minus the internet stalking stuff).

-Arrian I'd be curious to find out how many really serious girlfriends most men actually have before finally settling down and getting married.

[ZonaPutaX]

Clearly that's the way to go!

-Arrian

[blogforloversxx]

Live not in the past! In the future your happiness is! Hrmrmmm!



-Arrian

[bunkalapa]

1 (7.5 years) + 1 now (2 years)

The 3 years in between I ran after one who also was sending uot mixed messages. In the end you tire from it and look for greener pastures

[freevideoandoicsI]

Originally posted by Grandpa Troll
Umm, take a break from all internet save Apolyton

Go out, go to grocery stores, department stores, electronic stores, video stores, ect.

Strike up a casual conversation sans any 1 on 1 intentions.

Ask anything from in the food store, whats the easiest way to bake fish
or bake chicken

in other stores same, insert item there.

Just build up experiencing interaction.

Now go out and when you find yourself attracted to (not necessarily in a sexual way) someone, strike up a conversation, perhaps suggest bowling or a movie or maybe pool.

Just some free advice.

Grandpa "Used 2 B ah Playah" Troll The old man has good advice. I'd add that you should also find ways to improve your life. Get into better shape (we can always improve), make a list of things you want to do in your life and do one of them (maybe learn to paint or play guitar, etc...), do something you'd never ever do like go swing dancing, and just get outside of your normal routine so that you're trying new experiences and meeting new people.

[egexgfczc]

You should go out to parties and clubs, especially if you still live in DC.

[apatteopipt]

Yeah, I have the problem of no women in my life (like I don't know any, period).

I Really think that I should move back to Maryland, I didn't have much success there, but at least I knew women. It is hard to have any success if you don't meet anyone, and I haven't met anyone for a long time.

Pretty much since I moved down here.

JM