[lookanddiscover]

Alright well Im your typical teenage guy in alot of senses.

There is this girl Im dating right?
Its a rather long distance relationship.
I can only see her on the weekends.
Me and her have had our fair share of problems, and our lives have had some pretty ****ty low points to them.

Im and gamer geek
She is the gothic freak
We have nothing in common really
minus being admitted sex addicts
other then that really nothing.

I just dont understand, and I dont want to question it really.

When I first met her, she looked amazing to me, satanic crosses and all.

Now dont get me or her wrong, she has toned it down alot, but even still.

I dont understand love really. I know what it feels like but what is it that brings me back to her time and time again despite all the problems? What brings her back?

I know out feelings are legit because of what we go through for each other. We have seen each other at our highest and lowest points and do everything together when we can.

I know there is little negative to this, Its just I never really thought about it.

What makes it work so well? Why are me and her always happy with each other despite being so damned different? And we are almost polar opposites.

I might be rambling but I have her on my mind, and I just wanted to share my own personal curiosity on you all.

Who gives a FRAK?

would you like some cheese with that whine?

[womberte]

Two things.

1. Try not to ask for personal advice online, you'll find a majority of people not caring, or offering terrible advice in light of that.
2. Don't overcomplicate things by reading so much into it. You're a teenager, stop that.

[ZwHRoTTn]

Who gives a FRAK?

would you like some cheese with that whine?

XD Imma lol when karma kicks you in the nads for that.

[Petrushkaukrop]

XD Imma lol when karma kicks you in the nads for that.

it's not karma, dude. Its called life, the sooner you realize the better.

[PPActionnGuys]

I don't understand what you're asking us. You're asking why you like her so much more than anyone else? How would we know that? We don't know you or her.

Love is love, it's not supposed to make sense. I mean studies have been done that show love suppresses the activity areas of the brain that control critical thought. It's something that is different for everyone, and something that shouldn't be thought about too much. If you like being around her, if you love her, then that's all that matters.

Lol wow I didnt honestly expect this thread to get posted on again :P

But yeah, Me and her broke it off like 3 months ago, and came back, and strangely enough it seems to be working alot better then it was before. Me and her broke up on 3 seperate occasions over the course of 2 years (One break up was REALLY LONG). But yeah, like I said the whole reason for posting this was the get some (Possibly some) Adult input to kinda make it make sense. Its not that me and her arent happy, its just that me and her have talked it over last week and obviously something is there, because without the other there we miss each other alot, but it seems we do nothing in common, last week we found a little bit of common interest so Im hoping its a start to doing things the right way now.

I personally am in love (sure i'm a teenager, but been through enough things to know the real thing)

If it's love, it can make a nazi love a jewish person.

It doesn't matter. If you two don't have anything in common, you should just accept it and move on. True love is when both people accept each other's flaws and differences while living with each other.

[Attarderb]

(sure i'm a teenager, but been through enough things to know the real thing)

No. You Don't. Sorry.

Your 16/17 years on the planet do not grant you that knowledge.

You must be at a higher class level to enter this dungeon.

[TineSeign]

Well...

The 30 year old who never leaves the house is will die on the streets.

The poor 10 year old boy living on the streets will.

[MannyLopez]

Well...

The 30 year old who never leaves the house is will die on the streets.

The poor 10 year old boy living on the streets will.

uh, what?

[7kitthuptarill]

Here. I'd say stay with her because you'll both love each other in the end. /corniness

[larentont]

Lol, this topic is so win, yet so fail at the same time...

But yeah, don't post topics about love help online, it's really not a smart thing to do.

Imo, you should stop making such a big deal over it. Don't over-complicate this kind of thing when you don't have to.

Really, love isn't all that hard to understand when you stop trying so damn hard to understand it. It's like trying to find the final digit of pi, it's damn near impossible to do, and if you did somehow manage to do it, you're sure as hell not gonna achieve some kind of enlightened state out of it, you'll just be that weird, lonely guy who wasted his time on trivial things.

If you don't know if you love her or not, then don't dwell on it. Just act. Whatever happens from there is what should happen.

If you can't stop dwelling, then I'll put it this way: If you think you're interested in someone, it you might like them. If you think you love someone, you're infatuated. If you can picture yourself dying for that person, you almost love them. If you can picture yourself living for someone, then you love them.