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Hang out with the guys when you first
come to school. A lot of clicks are formed in the beginning, until some may branch off into the greek system. But the first few weeks of school, freshman are as open as they will ever be to making new friends. Make friends with plenty of the guys, hang out with them, and if it is a public school, they will have female friends from high school likely attending the college that you'll get to hang out with. Take an interest in the girls you meet as people, continue to learn to appreciate what you value about yourself and realize that your insecurities do not reflect negatively reflect upon your true self, unless you are a nazi, and if you do those things, they'll respect you and you'll get the confidence to fail - and eventually succeed - with them. |
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Meeting women in college is a lot
easier than High School. I just finished up my first semester and I had a great time in terms of women. Broads in college are different almost every where. They engage in conversation a lot more, aren't nasty or mean, are usually looking for some fun too, and just like a good time. I had good success even without pheromones. Just being social will result in a lot of convos and invites. This doesn't mean you have to Mr. Extravert, but just be open to carry on a conversation. And if there is one thing I learned in college in regards to women its that there is someone for everyone. Even if you are a shy guy and don't go hunting for women; if someone is feelin you they will approach you or make an attempt to start up a convo. I had this happen to me many times. Whether it was at the dining hall, the library, or just chillin outside my dorm, women in college will approach you and will not shy from doing it. Just remember to be open to conversation, and even if your not attracted to the broad your talking to it will make an impression on others who are lookin at you and will lead to even more convos and friendships. |
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Well, I'm going
off to college this September. I was wondering if anyone had any tips or suggestions for meeting girls... I mean, I have a post on the other board about which pheremones to use but I was wondering what other things to do. My situation is basically that I went to the same school from Kindergarten until 12th grade, and there weren't very many people in my school. My graduating class had about 100 people in it. I was also really shy when I was younger, I guess I still am shy but not nearly as much, but anyway, the reason why I'm saying this is because I didn't really have much success with girls in high school. Well, the fact is, I didn't really have much contact with them because I was very shy. Plus, I wasn't very confident because I didn't look good, I looked like a nerd. Of course, that has changed completely now... but you know, reputation lasts, especially at a school where everybody knows everybody else because it is so small. Now, at the end of my senior year, I have quite a few friends who are girls but the problem is, I just can't find a girl for a girlfriend. I think one of the problems is that I don't have access to a lot of girls my age because my school is so small and now that I've graduated, I'm not really doing much at the moment. However, the good news I suppose is that at college, there will be tons of new girls for me to meet so I guess I'm looking forward to that. So, anyway... does anyone have any suggestions or tips for a sort of shy guy like me? Thanks. |
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Hey, I am sure you will still meet
female friends through friends, they'll just be in the process of trying to bang her too! Don't worry, I think those small colleges are good, the reason being that people see each other around far more. It is much more likely you will run into people from your classes, parties, dorms, etc etc etc again and again, which is a good thing. Hell, when you are at some party and there are females present that already have run across you from classes, through friends, etc, it will increase your chances. So I think it is good you picked a small school, big schools students meet once and never run into each other again. Just be open to meeting people and be easy going when you get there and you will meet a lot of people. |
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Hang out with the actually is no greek system so i guess i won't have to worry about my new found friends being sucked into that. because it's a small college, i don't think there will be many people there who will have other people from their high school there, so i won't be able to meet female friends of friends. thanks for the advice very much though, if there's anything else, let me know, i'd like to hear it. |
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