[Roxanjbra]

I looked for, and couldn't find any list of unrepenant cheaters catchphrases. Unfortunately, cheating is not uncommon.......altho it seems like at the time your case is special. It isn't. So in hopes of helping others in the future, I'll start one. Feel free to post your own.

1. "I never meant for this to happen." Sure you did. You made a conscious decision to lie, betray, and have sex with someone else.

2. "It was a simple mistake." No. A simple mistake is forgetting to pay a bill. Saying an affair is a simple mistake is like calling the Titanic a "minor boating accident."

3. "That never happend." Anytime the word never appears, substitute it with ALWAYS.

4. "Whatever." Means you're right and I have no defense so I'm going to stop talking about it.


Lets keep it going.

[lrUyiva1]

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[Galinastva]

I love you.

She's just a friend.

You're crazy, I would never do that to you.

I didn't think you would find out.

I didn't think you loved me anymore.

I never see her or talk to her.

I got your back.

Can't you just get over it?

I didn't think anyone else would want me.

I don't know.

I don't remember.

It wasn't the same with her as it was with you.

She would never do thaaaaat.

It must be somebody else.

(Rinse. Lather. Repeat.....)

[Roxanjbra]

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[12Dvop4I]

I swear on my kids lives....

[nabsgood]

its eating my insides,,just thinking of my wife having sex with another man,,ive been married to my wife almost 20 years,,but in the last 5 years weve seem to have grown apart,,,i dont know if im just paranoid,,or my mind playing tricks on me ,,or,,if shes really going away to play with other men,,,the last 2 times that i know of,,she left with one of her sisters whom is divorced,,single and happy,,,she took my wife out of state to"gamble" at a casino,,,,,,they decided to stay overnight,,they were having too much fun,,,i texted her yesterday,,n,,asked what time she may be home,,n,,she said she didnt know,,and for me to stop calling her,,,she makes snide comments like,,ooohhh you bet im having fun,,,dont you worry,,,lol,,,ha ha,,,and i hear her sister in the background snikkering,,and another person laughing,,,,,,this has happened several times in the past year or so,,,should i fear the worst,,?

[Galinastva]

To my knowledge, casinos attract the 'big fish' poker players, and they like to give the ladies money, keeping them around as their sugar babies. Gambling is a pretty sleazy lifestyle, drugs, sex, etc. My advice is run and start a new life without her and do it before you catch a disease. Do not be her doormat.

[esdfsdflast]

It really just started out as a friendship. (If you we just friends, why wasn't she fat and ugly? If you want to keep calling it friendship, then I'll go out and get my own friend and see what you think about that.)

I needed someone to talk to who would just listen and not have an opinion. (When I spoke to her, she had definite opinions, especially about your "spoiled brat daughter" who you "coddled" and who "just needed a good wake up call." She made you think she didn't have an opinion because she was trying to reel you in, you idiot.)

We only had sex a couple of times. (Why would you think 2 times is any less disgusting or hurtful than 200 times?)

It is absolutely not a photo of her after we had sex. (No woman on this planet would ever send a photo of herself to any man when she first wakes up on the morning. AM I RIGHT LADIES?)

[esdfsdflast]

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[otheloComRole]

"What I was doing wasnt affecting the family".

"What you didnt know about wasnt hurting you".

"I cant remember"

"If that's what you think happened, then you must be right"

"You're telling the story".

"It's in the past, cant you let it go".

"I made a mistake, cant you forgive someone's mistake?"

"Internet dating is a trap".

"Those women mean nothing to me"

The Cheater's handbook - where do they all get it from????????

[VUzgOhgv]

Im depressed
Its my medication
You analyze things too much
Shes a patient, you think Im that stupid to put myself in that situation
Her husband beats her, she needs my help

[MicoSiru]

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[VistaULTIMATEdownloadaPro]

"I didn't tell you because I didn't want to hurt you."

Because telling me after the fact made it hurt a lot less. *Rolls eyes*

And the one that has plagued me for a long, long time:

"She means nothing to me now."

So what did I mean to you then? Less than nothing?

[otheloComRole]

Yes I get the "those women were nothing" line too.

"you need to get professional help because I cant take away the images and thoughts you have in your head".

"I am trying to save the family and you are trying to destroy it" (This is the blame /guilt being put on me if I say I want to leave the marriage).

"You will take your aggression out on the children if I am not here to be your punching-bag". (Another manipulative attempt to scare me into submission and fear that he will take our children).

"I've worked for 30 years and now you want to take it all from me". (Another laying guilt on me).

Why am I being held to ransom by these threats?

[CurtisTH]

[quote=Rosella;63338]

"you need to get professional help because I cant take away the images and thoughts you have in your head".

- I get pretty close to that, I get "You imagine too much"

- More often than not it is "All I have time for is work" (coming from a field consultant)

- My personal favorite "I would never jeopardize what we have, I love you"

[eocavrWM]

I Kept Seeing Him Because He Said He Would Tell You If I Didn't.

[GOLAGLULT]

"I don't remember"

"You know more than I do"

"You can't live in the past"

"It had nothing to do with you"

"I don't know why"

"She knew I wasn't going to leave you" (Is this supposed to make me feel better?)

"It was just sex"

"It just happened" (this is my personal favorite...he must have tripped and fell into the skanks)

"It wasn't that good"

Blah blah blah. There seriously must be a playbook.

[CurtisTH]

"It just happened" (this is my personal favorite...he must have tripped and fell into the skanks)

LMAO - what is that a sex accident? We would all be millionaires if we could have a nickel for every line!

[aceriscoolon]

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[JennyStewarta]

Here's a few my STBXW said:

"He kept coming onto me"

"I always loved you"

"I've changed"

"I know I what I did was wrong but my kid deserves a father"

"Let's focus on the little one now so we can move past this"

"But I'm still here"