[longrema]

I've learned that intuition is real.

I've learned that if given enough rope they will hang there own self.

I've learned to keep my mouth shut to get the heads up.

I've learned that finding out that your spouse has been unfaithful is damaging mentally and physically.

I've learned that i am the type of person who will retaliate.

I've learned that it is not my fault

And That for him payback is not far away

[TyncTyncSah]

What I have learned as I have matured •I've learned that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is stalk them and hope they panic and give in.
•I've learned that no matter how much I care, some people are just assholes.
•I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.
•I've learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you'd better have a big weenie or huge boobs.
•I've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to others - they are more screwed up than you think.
•I've learned that you can keep puking long after you think you're finished.
•I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, unless we are celebrities.
•I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades, and there had better be a lot of money to take its place.
•I've learned that the people you care most about in life are taken from you too soon and all the less important ones just never go away.

[thomaskkk]

*I've learned that no matter how hard you try, for some people it will never be enough

*I've learned that you are never to old to learn to live life to it's fullest.

*I've learned that you can clean the sh!t that you see off your shoe, but unless you clean the sole(soul) it will still stank.

*I've learned that being a decent human being isn't rocket science, so most people should be able to accomplish this even with a semi functioning brain stem.

*I've learned that it doesn't matter how many degrees anyone has, how much money or what neighborhood you live in, we all whipe our a$$ the same way.

*I've learned that only I can allow someone to take my victory.

*I've learned the devil IS a liar, but he has some little children running around trying their best to make others believe them.

*I've learned that fear is the greatest stumbling block to success in all aspects of life.

[ArrichMer]

I've learned that they are sociopaths in this world and that they are not easy to recognize.

I've learned that people lie more than I thought.

I've learned what grief is...

And I've learned to do things for myself again...
SIS

[thomaskkk]

The one thing that I should have said first is .......


I have learned that God is in control of my life and I am good with that since I drove it in the ditch the first half of it.

[c2siOlIk]

I have learned not to push people into loving you. by doing so, creates friction.

First, In order to have true love. the lesson learned goes like this:

Two people, man and woman, want to show true love. Both walked out naked. Unashamed. They dug a hole in the ground. both planted a seed. The seed must be nurtured, and watered daily. Plus tended to keep the weeds and the thorns away. (Choking vines = cheaters, jealousy and envy = enemies of love), the seed starts to sprout. Then wind blows the small young plant. The plant is flexible, bending back and forth without breaking. Then over time, the plant grows stronger and stronger. resistant to breaking. The more two people are willing to nurture that seed. The plant grows stronger and happier. Nothing can hurt it.

Over time. Plant has grown fully. The plant is referred to as love between man and woman that cannot be separated due to any crisis in the relationship. This is what God intended it to be.

As the plant keeps on growing fully steam. Love grows stronger each day.


This is my paraphrase I use daily. Many people do not grasp the meaning of this phrase being used.

I hope it has opened many eyes.

[longrema]

I've learned to trust in God because he will always show me the way.

I've learned that i am not responsible for other people actions they are.

I've learned that love can be blind and cloud your judgment of who others truly are.

I've learned that when the tears dry you can see a clearer picture.

I've learned that i have to love myself enough to trust myself wholeheartedly.

I've learned that it is not my job to fix problems i did not make.

I've learned that regardless of how much you want to believe a lie, the nagging feeling within will not allow you to.

I've learned that knowledge is truly power.

I've learned that selfish people really exist, and many walk around in sheep's clothing before they reveal the wolf to you.

I've learned no man nor woman is worth your own sanity.

I've learned that i must accept my decisions and stand by them firmly and never waiver my opinion for anyone.

And I have learned that i need to respect myself always, never give in never give up, Protect my soul from the trickery and deceit of others and come chat with the community of "CHAT CHEATERS" when i start to forget all thee above!

[TyncTyncSah]

lol, mine was posted as a joke, but you guys came up with serious answers. These are good threads, thanks.

[brulpcoersero]

I have learned that my four legged friends are more faithful than any friend I have ever known, and not matter what a strawberry sunday makes me smile

[bumxumer]

I’ve learned bad things happen to good people way too often.

I’ve learned there are way more cheaters out there than there are faithfuls.

I’ve learned if you suspect infidelity, it’s usually so. You don’t really need proof. Deep inside you just know.

I’ve learned I’m very good at sniffing out a lie because it’s not about what the person says, it’s about how it feels in your gut when they say it.

I’ve learned I’m so much stronger than I had ever imagined or believed.

I’ve learned forgiveness is not about letting someone off the hook, but about giving up the hope that the past can ever be undone.

I learned I really hate how it feels being caught up in a tornado or pushed off a cliff.

I have finally learned patience after 49 years and the only person responsible for my happiness is me.

Godspeed. . .

[TyncTyncSah]

Seriously, the number one thing I have learned that no matter how bad it hurts and how low one feels, Life goes on, and there is life out there after infidelity. Been through it twice, and it's not worth letting it rule your life or thoughts forever.

There is sunshine after the storm. May take a while to come out but it will with time.

[SaamanthaSterlyng]

I have learned that I do not want my bitterness towards this evil woman to consume me for the rest of my life, however what I have NOT learned as yet is how to do this
But I HAVE learned that there are supportivepeople in this group who truly understand what I am going through and that gives me some comfort.

[abubycera]

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[thomaskkk]

Thanks Queen Ti. I was missing the big man today too. I wanted to tell him about my daughter graduating.