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**veizKinquiz** · 01-15-2011, 03:24 PM

Does anyone find Harely's site sexist and victim blaming? He seems biased against men and oblivious to the cheater's contribution to the pre cheating state of the marriage.

**aaaaaaaabbbby** · 01-15-2011, 04:21 PM

I'm not sure what site you are referring to.

Kitkat

**veizKinquiz** · 01-15-2011, 04:30 PM

Marriagebuilders. The more I read on that site, the more I see the author balming the betrayed spouse for causing the affair. And he seems to feel that men, in particular, cause their wives to cheat.

**aaaaaaaabbbby** · 01-15-2011, 04:50 PM

I personally do not llike marriage builders at all. I understand that people do derive some benfit from the site and his program, but I have issues with the overall message because he seems to conflate marriage issues and infidelity issues. For that reason, I'm not a fan.

IMO - it does no good for either the CS or the BS to believe that the BS shares in the responsibility for the infidelity.

KitKat

**veizKinquiz** · 01-15-2011, 05:03 PM

I agreethe site is full of kool aid drinkers. Any dissension and you are attacked and banned.

**aaaaaaaabbbby** · 01-15-2011, 05:07 PM

lol. never drinkt he koolaide

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01-15-2011, 03:24 PM	#1
veizKinquiz Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 434 Senior Member	I Gotta Ask Does anyone find Harely's site sexist and victim blaming? He seems biased against men and oblivious to the cheater's contribution to the pre cheating state of the marriage. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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aaaaaaaabbbby Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 434 Senior Member	I'm not sure what site you are referring to. Kitkat Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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01-15-2011, 04:30 PM	#3
veizKinquiz Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 434 Senior Member	Marriagebuilders. The more I read on that site, the more I see the author balming the betrayed spouse for causing the affair. And he seems to feel that men, in particular, cause their wives to cheat. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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01-15-2011, 04:50 PM	#4
aaaaaaaabbbby Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 434 Senior Member	I personally do not llike marriage builders at all. I understand that people do derive some benfit from the site and his program, but I have issues with the overall message because he seems to conflate marriage issues and infidelity issues. For that reason, I'm not a fan. IMO - it does no good for either the CS or the BS to believe that the BS shares in the responsibility for the infidelity. KitKat Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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01-15-2011, 05:03 PM	#5
veizKinquiz Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 434 Senior Member	I agreethe site is full of kool aid drinkers. Any dissension and you are attacked and banned. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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01-15-2011, 05:07 PM	#6
aaaaaaaabbbby Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 434 Senior Member	lol. never drinkt he koolaide Quote: Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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