[bingookenoo]

A little background. My brother and I had a very hard time getting along as kids. And he beat my ass most of my childhood. That was until I learned to kick him in the nuts. By the time we were in our mid 20's we were estranged. It has been 7 years since we have talked. My sister in law friended him on facebook a year or two ago, not because she is friends with him, but because she is nosey and likes to snoop. She has been a she beast and spreads lies about me since we stopped being friends when I married her brother. She never thought I was good enough for him. (Ha! Yea it was me who was the problem). Anyway. I asked my brother very nicely in a message to stand behind me, and unfriend her. I was asking as a little sister who didn't want my soon to be ex in laws access into my world. This was the response I got
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I will respond to this comment with the most civility that I can.. I cannot and will not get involved in your marriage disputes. You two decided not only to pursue a relationship that resulted in a marriage that was forced but also at the cost of many lives. Neither of you ever chose to consider the impact that your choices were having or would have on the children you were making would have but only in your selfish ways. I will not pick sides and will not get involved. I am not and have never been friends with ***** but I will also by no means have you tell me who to or not to be friends with. I will always have a spot for my nieces and nephews in my heart and life whether or not you make it for them but the drama you create has no place in my life. I have decided that life is too short for issues like this. God bless and I hope you find something that truly makes you happy.
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I have no freakin idea what this meant. Any of it. I am going to go out on a limb and guess he is drunk. Atleast I hope that's what happened here, because otherwise he has lost it. I then got another message to cease all communication with him and his family. (Also, don't know what that is, because it was one short message, not a series of long emails or calls). I won't be sending anything else, and another 7 years is too soon to talk to him again, but wtf? I wonder if my sil is making **** up about me to tell everyone. Wouldn't surprise me. I just hope my kids don't hear a series of lies spread to save the reputation of a cheater. What do u guys think?

[Svatudjw]

Block their azzes from your life. I did former SIL, best move I ever made. I would do the same to my own blood in a hot minute. Sorry you are dealing with more butt monkeys.

[bingookenoo]

I did that for 7 years. I am the moron who opened the door on this. What did einstein say about insanity ... Doing the same thing and expecting a different result.
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Thought in our 30's maybe just maybe we had grown enough to be good people to eachother. Should have remembered that wasn't the problem.

[Svatudjw]

No harm in thinking that grown people can act maturely. Problem is, they don't know it. Part of keeping your head up your azz, it stunts the growth of the brain and the gas retards the maturation of the brain cells.

[FloareTraurne]

Hang in there...I have not spoken to my two brothers in five years or so...I know what you are going through.