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Old 02-08-2007, 07:24 PM   #1
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At work there are two coworkers that are having an affair. They are both married. Whatever they do on their own time is not my business. However, when they go hiding their affair and then they go around talking about marriage and how they are better than most people because they have been married so long to their spouses. That's when I draw the line. Unfortunately I can't get involved, I could loose my job. I just wished their spouses knew what they were up to. What should I do? Continue listening to their hypocrites?
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Old 02-08-2007, 09:25 PM   #2
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Old 02-08-2007, 11:36 PM   #3
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Old 03-08-2007, 05:57 PM   #5
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Not trying to be an @ss, but thinking that this could be your angle. I'm pretty sure that most work places wouldn't want this sort of think happening. Hurd's right, you probably aren't the only one and I'm sure that this is disruptive to more than just you. There must be some sort of action you can take to stop this madness at work. I like the anonymous letter approach myself. Sigh, you're a better person than I, hypocrites really suck!!
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Old 08-13-2007, 02:15 PM   #6
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I know they are cheating because one day I sat down at her desk and she had her email open. There were a few emails from each other talking about what they did during the previous weekend and having to leave the office at different times to meet outside the office without raising suspicions.

I can't get involved because history here has shown that one way or another they will turn this on me. Like, why was I reading other people's email. I was not able to print or save the emails for proof. I am not sure if the information is backed up daily or not. The owner of the company thinks the world of this guy (brown nose) and it would be my word against his. He is the "religious" type, the one would give a homeless person a dollar and makes sure the whole world knows about it, the one that can't do anything wrong. I been known to tell the boss that he is wrong a number of times and even when I have been right, the delivery has not always been welcome.

I appreciate your input.
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Old 08-13-2007, 11:32 PM   #7
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Use a payphone.... And stick it to the p''r ick. tell his wife.
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Old 08-14-2007, 12:42 AM   #8
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You can either have someone call the spouses for you, or use a spoof card very cheap to buy ,call the spouses and you can put anyphone number in to make it say whatever you want on caller ID. I would put in each others number so they think someone from their own house called the other, or just use your imagination. I would then let HR know Anonymously about the email abuse. Keep yourself out of the loop, for all you know she may be blo.ing someone in HR too. Tell HR in the anonymous note that they are using company resourses time and equipment for their affair, and tell HR you are going to write a letter to a higher up if it is not stopped. I truly truly believe if you know you should tell, I wish someone would have done that for me, it would have saved me alot of time and heartache. What a couple of scumbags, heck if you dont have the nerve I would be very happy to do it for you
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