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[soajerwaradaY]

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[buIf6yoW]

Ironyrules

Well, it is pretty clear from your posts that you are well educated, I have to respect that about you, however I think you have been remiss in your approach to the patrons of this site. First, this is a site dedicated to infidelity, the people who come here are hurting and some of them are in dire need of assistance. In some cases we are the first line of counsel these people get, you dispense your advice with all the empathy of a butcher working on a piece of meat in a delicatessen. This isn’t a round table discussion on the matter, some of these people are really hurting, we are not here for your pleasure or amusement; I find your comment about the close mindedness of the people here very disconcerting.

And one of the reasons I'm posting is to find someone who thinks similarly, or has a good challenge for me, but this forum is so entertaining its ok that I probably won't find that.

This one is particularly impressive, remarkable that you find people who have been changed by their issues so engaging. You and I are in the same boat that a former partner marred our past with infidelity. I can easily tell you that a cheating girlfriend or boyfriend is NOT the same as a cheating husband or wife, I'm not trying to minimize the pain of that infidelity whatsoever but we can just dump a boyfriend, we need to DIVORCE a spouse!! We can’t imagine what some of these people have gone through or ARE going through so a statement like that one was highly insensitive and most of your posts come off as highly patronizing and elitist. I can’t judge you on the way that you live your life but the way you speak of it and your relationship with your husband is more of a business arrangement that a relationship and some of your “adventures” are, let’s say unconservative. If that works for the both of you than I wish you the best but realize that most of the patrons here, and even possibly the general public doesn’t approach life in this manner and of course there will be some disagreements regarding this. Are you really surprised by some of the responses you are getting? in truth as I read more of your posts I see that your heart is indeed in the right place however, before you write us all off as close minded morons, remember that most of the time your posts seem to cause acrimony from the others here, are they to blame or are you responsible?
I’m just calling the situation how I see it, take it however you want to take it, but for the good of yourself and the other posters here, take a course on how to speak to people, I’m probably sure it couldn’t hurt.

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I could'nt have said that better, MrMaximum. Well done.

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Precisely Muffinman. That was meant as a joke, and only one person got it, I too thought that was a very thoughtless thing to post!

I've never cheated on H cause he's almost as smart as me.

Even as a joke, what was this all about? Like Tilly you may need to read and then re-read and then stop and re-read your posts again, tactless doesn’t seem to cover this one.

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[AliceFromHouston]

Everything out of her mouth is condescending and elitist. I had a professor like her once. A real man hater. She comes off as being well educated but the over the top liberal views out her at being mentally off. You can really see it in the posts.

After all, liberalism is a mental disorder.

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[arindiruppya]

Muffin,

I guess I thought it was a joke because my mentality and morals can't believe that anybody would say that and actually mean it

Tilly

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First in the interest of marriage preservation in general, I want to point out another NYTimes article, published in June, which has been on the top 10 all week... What Shamu Taught Me About a Happy Marriage. It is a hoot.

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Nah, Tilly, I just remember reading that you said that you had MS and that you read and re-read your posts to make sure that people don’t get the wrong idea, I actually admired that fact that you go the extra mile. I’d never do that to you, I hope you now know this, I hold you and the regulars here in very high regard, I'd never attempt to malign you or anyone else here!!

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Well I have to hand it to you, it really is tough to ruffle your feathers, I wasn’t trying to get under your skin, but your response does indeed show that you keep your sh!t tight. However, the title of your last post makes me wonder if you are one of those academics that love to stir up a little sh!t? You know, “If I can’t get you thinking, then I’ll get you mad” sort of people. Well, one of the things that have always made me a little hot under the collar is that fact that there is indeed a war of the sexes. Men and Women competing with each other and que sera sera. This only bugs me because women will always point the finger at men; men are pigs, men are assholes, men are animals.
Yeah, my closest friends are all female; in fact I get along better with women than I do with men to be quite honest. You want to bring up a Dixie Carter - like diatribe about how men are the cause of all the challenges in the world? Be my guest, to be honest it won’t surprise anyone here. Here is the deal though, you have a flat tire and a bad alternator, both will keep your car from running well. If you fix the tire and leave the alternator, there is still a problem, yeah? Fix the brakes, alternator is still screwed. Rotate the tires; still you got a bum alternator. What’s my point? WOMEN ARE NOT PERFECT AND THEY ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR SOME OF THE SH!T IN THIS WORLD TOO. Fix ALL THE GUYS in the world; you will still have problems!! Why? Due to the fact that y’all aren’t perfect EITHER!!!
It kind of puts me on edge to read about jokes about the “perfect woman” they don’t damn well exist any more than the perfect man exists. Somewhere on this site a woman was complaining about how guys let woman run amok all over them and that they should stand their ground. I think it was Tomas that explained to her that the guy she thought was “perfect” would have been considered a Chauvinistic Pig not too long ago. Here’s a point for you, when I was in high school, I needed to grow up to be “Sensitive” Then I read not too long ago that woman were wondering were all the “Real men” went? What gives, we listen to you, and change for you and you don’t like what we change into. Nothing like playing a sport to find the goal posts continually moving.
Men are pigs, you’re right, maybe we are, but woman are self righteous who seldom look at their own faults. Think men are animals, take a gander at the old story section of this website, yeah there are more cheating husbands than wives stories, I'll give you that, but some of those cheating wives tales will turn your hair white. Perfect eh, try again. This went on long, I do apologize, I’m sure you got some sort of entertainment from this so I guess I did you a favor in some small, insignificant way. While you are pointing your finger at us men…..how many are pointing back at you?

[buIf6yoW]

It's super interesting in a sociological sense, tho.

Good to know that we are interesting to observe.

You know the Morlocks ATE the Eloi, you know that right?