[cewIdeatovace]

I have recently slept with a guy that has a girlfriend, we both felt really guilty after it and we both agreed not to tell anyone. But, I am scared he is going to tell his girlfriend, about what happened. I know if I was in his situation I would. I just don't know what to do on my end, if he does tell her because she doesnt know me except that i hang with the same group as he does. I understand i did a really BAD thing here, and I have never done anything like this before. I have always been on the receiving end of this (you know the innocent girlfriend, that does not realize her boyfriend is sleeping around) I use to promise my self i Would never do that to anyone else, i would never be the other girl/women. Now i do not know how to cope, any ideas???

[Pwy9egVW]

2. Options.

1, if his girlfriend is jealous you take the Honest beat down as well deserved.

or

2, You tell her, to her face and apologize, and let her know you regret it. That way you will catch her off guard and she wont know how to react but appreciate that you are sincere.


I personally prefer you go with 1, I dig catfights.
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fat girl Cam

[cewIdeatovace]

I'll probably go with option one, due to feeling i deserve the beating for this!!!

[b3JOkwXL]

Honestly I look at it like this...

Did you know before the fact that he was with someone?
or was it a drunk thing or what?

If you knew than I say go with option 1

If you had no ideal, she can't fault you for not knowing.. I know if my wife screwed around on me with a guy that didn't know me from the next guy I can't fault him..(Hell I would probably shake his hand and say thank you for letting me know)..

Just something to think about..

[Pwy9egVW]

so dont be to hard on your self that shows that you dont have the delusional selfish sense of entitlement that Crissy and Misty have so you are ok. Well look at it like this. This guy friend of yours you should avoid, he obviously does not care about his girlfriend (and the fact he is willing to hide it from her) should speak for his character. You are not married, he is NOT yours, what you did was bad yes, but you acknowledge it, learn from this, remember the Golden Rule, and move on with life. Take care, wish you the best.............I still think that this prick should come clean to this girlfriend, but hey what do I know?
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Bdsm Spanking

[b3JOkwXL]

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[cewIdeatovace]

Thank you for all of your words, i think i will take everything into consideration and see how it goes!!! Thank you all again!!!

[Breilopmil]

Move on , release guilt and learn from your mistake
not your problem anymore

[cewIdeatovace]

Thanks Marcus, but you see, my biggest problem in life is GUILT!!! Doesn't matter what i do, i feel guilty about it, this is just a really HUGE thing that i have done in my life, it will take me quite a while to get over this one!!! But thank you for the advice, i appreciate it!!!

[soitlyobserty]

Girl see a therapist... discover the root of the need to feel guilty. It has become a way of life for you. You get off on the rush of doing something taboo. If you don't break the cycle what will you do next? This guy has a girlfriend and you say this was really HUGE. What next a married man? You want to be punished. Personally, if I were his girlfriend and found out, and don't kid yourself honey we ALWAYS find out, first I'd kick his ass to the curb then I'd come after you. Ever have a Texas ass whup'n? Then I'd get my nails done.

Things to think about:

Don't think you are special your puss was not the first he's been pork'n

Get a blood test... ever hear of STD's?

Will you ever trust your boyfriend? husband? lover? or will you be worried that he's boff'n a girl just like you?

[Breilopmil]

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