[jstizzle]

So I've been dating this girl for about a month now. She's very outgoing and my roommates and my roommates' significant others have really warmed up to her - to the point that they kind of oogle over her every time she comes over. My roommate's boyfriend (he is homosexual) has basically adopted my girlfriend as his new best friend and has started inviting her to hang out with him. Just today when my girlfriend came over to spend time with me, he invited my girlfriend to hang out with him this evening (in front of me, didn't say anything to me, he just asked HER to hang out with him). At the same time, my female roommate (whom I don't really care for much) has started asking my girlfriend to hang out with her (go dress shopping and do other girl stuff etc). It's almost like I can't spend time with her at my house because these two people want to spend time with her. I NEVER hang out with my roommates (never go out to movies or go out drinking with them), and then all of a sudden I started dating this girl and now these two people act like she is a best friend and are inviting her to hang out at OUR house to do stuff WITHOUT me.

I understand that she is her own person and has the right to hang out with my roommates, but it's kind of bizarre that this is happening. I don't think that my roommates should be trying to forge a relationship with this girl in the way that they are. Their association to her is that she is MY girlfriend, not their "new friend" and its kind of crossing a boundary so to speak. Has anyone else ever experienced this kind of behavior? For the most part, I stay out of the lives of my roommates and their significant others, and I would want the same for my personal life and relationships.