[chadnezzrr]

I just dont get it... I fix the roof, take out the trash, fix the car, maintain the car, keep her computer working, bring in the funds we need to keep this house going, wake up and feed the baby all the time during the night so she can sleep... and what do I get... nothing... nothing!

she is always complaining that I dont do anything... she says that I should have to do all that 'extra stuff' and still do the same stuff she does because she cant do it so its mine to do by default...???

she is always complaining and bitching and moaning... sometimes I just want to explode!!!

damn I need a drink... a really hard stiff one at that

[unlomarma]

That sucks man. My wife sees me cooking dinner, washing dishes etc, she wants to ravage me, lol [thumbup]

Theres something wrong, if you do all that day in day out, and still gets on your s**t, something is up. She is either hiding something, or just not happy with life atm.

[QQQQQ-Trek]

damn I need a drink... a really hard stiff one at that

You need a divorce.

[avaiftBoara]

Leave her,

That's what I did. I feel much better now. 1 lost 10 found

[zoolissentesy]

You need a divorce.

[rofl] exactly what I was thinking.

I have freinds like that (who get absolutely run over by thier wife) smashed, seriously, at a minimum you need to put your foot down and not get taken advantage of.

[myhackingtosh_ws]

She's unhappy about something, you need to find out what that is.

[squicscor]

I can't complain. My wife takes care of me. The only task I have at home is to take out the garbage. Well, and cook. We either eat out, or I cook something. The most she'll do is make tuna and crackers, or microwave some soup.

[chadnezzrr]

everytime she compains I feel like, 'why should I help her... she does it all already... she doesnt need my help'

[JackTimQSR]

First child? Could it be post-natal depression?

[mas-dkt-sive]

punch her in da face?

[pobrierce]

You could always cheat on her. Find a girl who you see less often, and you will enjoy her more which will make you happier. Plus, when you go out with her it gives you more time away from your current wife/girlfriend.

[STYWOMBORGOSY]

punch her in da face?

Or mushroom tattoo on the forehead.

[chadnezzrr]

First child? Could it be post-natal depression?

actually yes we just had our first child almost 3 months ago

[inmeirulez]

She's unhappy about something, you need to find out what that is.

good advice imo

[zoolissentesy]

really hard stiff one at that actually, it seems like that's what she needs. (in da butt)

[rofl]

[Tam04xa]

Talk to her, may be partly depression, genral tiredness or something else.
What you can both do is write down what each of you does and what you think the other should be helping with.
Big symptom of a marriage or relationship in trouble is a loss of intamicy - doesn't have to mean sex, just smiling, persoanal contact, the little things make a big diffeerence.

[Thigmaswams]

punch her in da face?

[rofl]


That seems like the easiest option, but it sucks it's not that easy. Hope you can work though this.
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[CitsMoise17]

actually yes we just had our first child almost 3 months ago

sounds like post-partum depression... 'Postpartum depression occurs in women after they have carried a child, usually in the first few months. Symptoms include sadness, fatigue, insomnia, appetite changes, reduced libido, crying episodes, anxiety, and irritability. The condition is surprisingly common.' - Wikipedia hehehe

I do believe that there treatments for this type of depression, worth giving it a shot... [thumbup]

on a side note my wife does love to ravage me...

[STYWOMBORGOSY]

sounds like post-partum depression... 'Postpartum depression occurs in women after they have carried a child, usually in the first few months. Symptoms include sadness, fatigue, insomnia, appetite changes, reduced libido, crying episodes, anxiety, and irritability. The condition is surprisingly common.' - Wikipedia hehehe

I believe this is also a condition known as "being a woman", with heightened symptoms occurring on a cycle of approximately 28 days. . .


Of course in a minor form, this is a condition known as "life". . .


[edit]I'm surprised no one has come back with the solution beginning with "j" and ending with "p". . .

[QQQQQ-Trek]

Symptoms include sadness, fatigue, insomnia, appetite changes, reduced libido, crying episodes, anxiety, and irritability.

Remove reduced libido from that list and those are the symptoms of a baby too.