[whimpykid]

all this month I was so happy...to have someone there to talk to etc. now shes just a friend like anybody else it sucks really bad...

She made me so happy and she squashed me likea bug and doesnt even realize the turmoil shes putting me through i feel like a zombie now


i cant meet anybody now...I work all the time and barely have time to hang out with my friends....where do u guys meet chicks at? I tried the bar before...it doesnt work in america...trust me....u dont want anything to do with those girls

[DesautocaD]

its hard to be friends with someone you've actually had feelings for.

I think if its a mutual breakup its probably alright but if one person feels different from the other it is gonna much harder.

i cant meet anybody now...I work all the time and barely have time to hang out with my friends

These things just tend to happen, try not to worry yourself.

[whimpykid]

I think if its a mutual breakup its probably alright but if one person feels different from the other it is gonna much harder.



These things just tend to happen, try not to worry yourself.

i kno but i fear i'll be single all my life...it sucks.. i've felt so alone in my entire life

[russianstallian]

At first when I read this, I though ok young kid, taking things too hard., but then I read that you've been to the bar and in the states that's over 21.

You've been friends with this chick since grade school. That would be several years. You dated for a month. That is nothing. If you put in a year or two, I would feel your sorrow.

Stop being a drama queen, get out there, sow some oats, and make sure you take a hot chick by there when you pick up something she still has of yours. Then call her once and a while and let her now how great the new chick is.

You can still be friends. LOL.

[russianstallian]

oh my, yeah first girlfriend always suck.

Yeh, but the longer your with them the less they do it, so it's a good thing she dumped him. :P

[Hetgvwic]

Polo, i think you should tell her you love her now.

[russianstallian]

Yeh, so she can tear him down another peg and laugh at him with her friends?

Move on buddy.

[CULTDIAMONDS]

Yeh, so she can tear him down another peg and laugh at him with her friends?

Yeh, that's probably what he meant

[Hetgvwic]

You had to go and ruin it didnt you...

[russianstallian]

my bad. :-o

[pipitous]

bad luck mate, been there myself

hit my like a train wreck at the time and really screwed me up, but i had great friends who helped me through and i am fine now

[Hetgvwic]

bad luck mate, been there myself

hit my like a train wreck at the time and really screwed me up, but i had great friends who helped me through and i am fine now

You're relationship was like 4 years iirc....... not 4 weeks [rofl]

[pipitous]

You're relationship was like 4 years iirc....... not 4 weeks [rofl]

2yr one ended about 9 months ago, took me 6 months to get over her properly to consider someone new

just trying to add my experience to the discussion

[Hetgvwic]

2yr one ended about 9 months ago, took me 6 months to get over her properly to consider someone new

just trying to add my experience to the discussion

[Eunatis]

Wants to remain friends? Hah. If she really wanted that she would have told you in person or at least on the phone. You don't want to associate yourself with someone that ends a relationship over a messaging service. [no]

[AllAdobeOEMSoftDownload]

where do u guys meet chicks at?

I'm a drama teacher so joined the local amateur dramatics (it's good where I am!) and found the girl I'm now engaged to [thumbup]

Chicks love it when they expect you to be gay and find out you're not

[Hetgvwic]

where do u guys meet chicks at?

Ask CP oblisk.

[Jambjanatan]

Just go get laid and you will feel much better. [thumbup]

[Konservir]

The fun just began, it gets easier later on, experiences++++[yes]

[mikeyyuiok]

Wants to remain friends? Hah. If she really wanted that she would have told you in person or at least on the phone. You don't want to associate yourself with someone that ends a relationship over a messaging service. [no]

Yup, that's cold. Either it shows no respect/consideration or she's afraid to tell you to your face.
When you do see her and the subject comes up, you can be candid and admit you were hurt by the breakup but what really hurt was the way she did it.
However I assume this just happened today or very recently and, unless you continue to feel sorry for yourself, you'll find that the depression will soon pass - heck, you may find more girls taking an interest in you now.