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**jisee** · 12-21-2006, 07:42 AM

I met a girl at a party, the very next day she invited me out for lunch, had a great time with her. We have a second date lined up for the 24th dec. Would be cool if i get her something. It has to sometime small and fun, so not to scare her off but show I was thinking.

We are both 22

**gundorana** · 12-21-2006, 07:44 AM

I met a girl at a party, the very next day she invited me out for lunch, had a great time with her. We have a second date lined up for the 24th dec. Would be cool if i get her something. It has to sometime small and fun, so not to scare her off but show I was thinking.

We are both 22

whats she interested in? pick something you've talked about in that first date so she knows you're not a stalker psycho person and get something small based on that. Has to be small and lighthearted though!

**cinggooft** · 12-21-2006, 07:45 AM

A small red thong. That always does it.

**M1iFiNmC** · 12-21-2006, 07:47 AM

Get her some flowers and go out and eat at a nice place. Less is more - you've only known her for a short time.

**Hrennilasi** · 12-21-2006, 07:50 AM

I met a girl at a party, the very next day she invited me out for lunch, had a great time with her. We have a second date lined up for the 24th dec. Would be cool if i get her something. It has to sometime small and fun, so not to scare her off but show I was thinking.

We are both 22

In a case like this I would go for candy or flowers. Have them tuck a bit of mistletoe in the arrangement so you have a good excuse to sneak a kiss.

**LookSe** · 12-21-2006, 07:53 AM

whats she interested in? pick something you've talked about in that first date so she knows you're not a stalker psycho person and get something small based on that. Has to be small and lighthearted though!

I like this idea. I think flowers might be kind of boring, unless your date goes really well and you try the mistletoe idea.

**Hrennilasi** · 12-21-2006, 08:32 AM

I do like the idea of something you spoke about from your first date.

Another idea might be either an exotic looking ornament or a totally goofy one. I have a Marvin the Martian one that my husband got me for our first xmas together and I treasure it.

**whatisthebluepill** · 12-21-2006, 12:56 PM

How about gifts you cant really go wrong with like a snowglobe...or a candle lol

**TOOGUEITEME** · 12-21-2006, 01:13 PM

Perfect

**Liaptoono** · 12-21-2006, 01:22 PM

Frankly, I wouldn't get her anything. It's only your second date!

If you do get anything, I think something related to the date would be a good idea. A nice restaurant and some kind of little trinket could be a nice touch.

Save your money for the people that really matter.

**11Pecepebra** · 12-21-2006, 01:45 PM

Save your money for the people that really matter.

Quoted for truth.

**Liaptoono** · 12-21-2006, 01:53 PM

The fact that you just quoted me is kind of depressing.

**Zvmwissq** · 12-21-2006, 06:28 PM

Frankly, I wouldn't get her anything. It's only your second date!
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Save your money for the people that really matter.

I agree. It's only 2 dates man! Don't get her anything because you will scare her off. Believe it or not, but psychologically when you RECEIVE gifts, it does not make the person like you more. It does, however, make the giver (YOU) like the receiver more! Kind of backwards, isn't it? I read this in a book I bought off of Amazon called, "How to get people to do anything!". Yes, it's a real book and I found it very informative.

**janeseymore09092** · 12-21-2006, 07:42 PM

In a case like this I would go for candy or flowers. Have them tuck a bit of mistletoe in the arrangement so you have a good excuse to sneak a kiss.

I vote for this one.

**9enackivegliva** · 12-21-2006, 07:48 PM

Flowers, its nice and simple and they will be good for a week or so. Hay the 'relationship' may only last that long anyway

12-21-2006, 07:42 AM	#1
jisee Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 389 Senior Member	X-Mas present for a girl of only 2 dates... HELP I met a girl at a party, the very next day she invited me out for lunch, had a great time with her. We have a second date lined up for the 24th dec. Would be cool if i get her something. It has to sometime small and fun, so not to scare her off but show I was thinking. We are both 22 Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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gundorana Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 502 Senior Member	I met a girl at a party, the very next day she invited me out for lunch, had a great time with her. We have a second date lined up for the 24th dec. Would be cool if i get her something. It has to sometime small and fun, so not to scare her off but show I was thinking. We are both 22 whats she interested in? pick something you've talked about in that first date so she knows you're not a stalker psycho person and get something small based on that. Has to be small and lighthearted though! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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cinggooft Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 484 Senior Member	A small red thong. That always does it. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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M1iFiNmC Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 467 Senior Member	Get her some flowers and go out and eat at a nice place. Less is more - you've only known her for a short time. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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Hrennilasi Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 426 Senior Member	I met a girl at a party, the very next day she invited me out for lunch, had a great time with her. We have a second date lined up for the 24th dec. Would be cool if i get her something. It has to sometime small and fun, so not to scare her off but show I was thinking. We are both 22 In a case like this I would go for candy or flowers. Have them tuck a bit of mistletoe in the arrangement so you have a good excuse to sneak a kiss. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-21-2006, 07:53 AM	#6
LookSe Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 550 Senior Member	whats she interested in? pick something you've talked about in that first date so she knows you're not a stalker psycho person and get something small based on that. Has to be small and lighthearted though! I like this idea. I think flowers might be kind of boring, unless your date goes really well and you try the mistletoe idea. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-21-2006, 08:32 AM	#7
Hrennilasi Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 426 Senior Member	I do like the idea of something you spoke about from your first date. Another idea might be either an exotic looking ornament or a totally goofy one. I have a Marvin the Martian one that my husband got me for our first xmas together and I treasure it. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-21-2006, 12:56 PM	#8
whatisthebluepill Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 613 Senior Member	How about gifts you cant really go wrong with like a snowglobe...or a candle lol Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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TOOGUEITEME Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 550 Senior Member	Perfect Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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Liaptoono Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 679 Senior Member	Frankly, I wouldn't get her anything. It's only your second date! If you do get anything, I think something related to the date would be a good idea. A nice restaurant and some kind of little trinket could be a nice touch. Save your money for the people that really matter. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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11Pecepebra Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 412 Senior Member	Save your money for the people that really matter. Quoted for truth. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-21-2006, 01:53 PM	#12
Liaptoono Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 679 Senior Member	The fact that you just quoted me is kind of depressing. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-21-2006, 06:28 PM	#13
Zvmwissq Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 522 Senior Member	Frankly, I wouldn't get her anything. It's only your second date! ... Save your money for the people that really matter. I agree. It's only 2 dates man! Don't get her anything because you will scare her off. Believe it or not, but psychologically when you RECEIVE gifts, it does not make the person like you more. It does, however, make the giver (YOU) like the receiver more! Kind of backwards, isn't it? I read this in a book I bought off of Amazon called, "How to get people to do anything!". Yes, it's a real book and I found it very informative. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-21-2006, 07:42 PM	#14
janeseymore09092 Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 410 Senior Member	In a case like this I would go for candy or flowers. Have them tuck a bit of mistletoe in the arrangement so you have a good excuse to sneak a kiss. I vote for this one. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-21-2006, 07:48 PM	#15
9enackivegliva Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 410 Senior Member	Flowers, its nice and simple and they will be good for a week or so. Hay the 'relationship' may only last that long anyway Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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