[incizarry]

This was one of my fake Facebook accounts and I'm just pre-selling Albie on a pick up course e-book I'm selling. Nothing to see here...

[toyboy]

So you've just realized Facebook is full of useless chitchat?

[saturninus.ribb]

Because I have a fundamental inability to deal with women in any capacity.

Understanding these small things provides me knowledge that could allow me to improve in all interactions with women, whether romantic, friendly, or professional.

1. Don't treat women as strange exotic creatures that need to be understood, treat them as people. They are basically the same as men. The differences are vastly smaller than the similarities.

2. This is a total non-issue. If it's a girl you aren't interested in, and you are having such an unbelievably inane conversation, she probably just lost interest or went to do something else. I get distracted from messenger/facebook conversations for 15 mins all the time.

3. Read that conversation back again. Could you have been any duller?

[gymnAnemoe]

1. Don't treat women as strange exotic creatures that need to be understood. They cannot be understood. Dont try. I've been married for 30 years and I have a 20 year old and a 16 year old daughter and I still cannot fathom female "logic".

[pymnConyelell]

I don't try to understand women.

I concentrate on being nice to them. It's far easier to get your head around, and they seem to appreciate it.

[emingeRek]

You need to turn your brain off Al. You're overthinking this.

[Vokbeelllicky]

well duh, Doc... after the incident with the prostitute I've learned to not love these hoes.

**** these *****es.

[IvJlNwum]

Doc, the thing is though that that 'cold-hearted *****' would be crying over a man with status who is aloof.

See that's the tricky thing. You got to be aloof but in a situation where she notices you being aloof. I can be all aloof I want ignoring some females I know but what good does that do me if all it means is they forget about me? You need to be in their daily lives and play aloof. That is the tricky thing.

How can I impose myself onto the lives of women while still being aloof? It's easy to do if it's a case of co-workers or (maybe) classmates or if you are in a status position that will attract her attention (like a collegiate athlete) but in any other case, it seems impossible to me.

Anyone know? By trying to put yourself into a position where you are in her life in some way, you're automatically showing interest. You need to be there already. How?

[arindiruppyr]

TURN YOUR ****ING BRAIN OFF.

Dude turning my brain off will not help me get women because I don't meet women. I can sit at home all day long with my brain off and acting all aloof but no woman will know I'm aloof because no woman will know who I am.

It's a very simple problem. Putting yourself out there while being aloof. Like I said, you need some excuse to be in their lives or be in a status position where they come to you. If you have neither, you need to somehow impose yourself on their lives while being aloof which seems impossible.

[Sthjrderfida]

dp

[hansen384cbh]

Get a job? Go to grad school?

and you don't need to be aloof to attract women.

Yes you do... and as for the rest, in time... and getting a job in fast food isn't going to put me in a position to have date-able coworkers.

As for right now, what would be my options? Is there a way to impose yourself on women's lives while being aloof if you're not already in their lives or in a status position where they seek you out?

[ropinirole]

when you get as old as me, p*ssy is not that important as it use to be. I enjoy the company.

[97dYA9L3]

Prozac has a lot to do with it also.

[Vipvlad]

Yes you do... and as for the rest, in time... and getting a job in fast food isn't going to put me in a position to have date-able coworkers.

As for right now, what would be my options? Is there a way to impose yourself on women's lives while being aloof if you're not already in their lives or in a status position where they seek you out?

Imposing yourself makes you sound like a rapist. Stop it.

I have done fine with women without pretending to be disinterested. You don't have to play ****ing mind games to get people to like you.