[poonnassunlix]

Assalamu Alaikum wa rahmatULLAHI wa barakatuHU wa maghfiratuHU dear all,
I need suggestions and duas ( of course ) to deal with relatives whose crankiness and their usual habit of picking on me and saying things against me behind my back has wearied me to such an extent that I am forced to discuss this issue at a public forum such as SF. I have never confronted them on this but I an sick and tired now and this is why I decided I should ask for duas and suggestions from my pious Muslim brothers and sisters here.

JazakumULLAH khair
Wassalam ma'al-ikram

[ulnanVti]

Aameen to all the duas.

[emexiagog]

hmmm same is the case with me , my relatives are also doing same things to me - what i do is ignore them but maintain good relation with them for sake of ALLAH coz good relation with relatives is necessary -- just keep good relations with them for sake of ALLAH and busy yourself for the preparation of Aakhirat

[fudelholf]

I really think Allah SWT is making you tougher because of this ordeal sister. This is how I feel whenever I see good Muslims dealing with rough situations. It just shows how strong they are. May Allah SWT make you sister seekeress and the rest of us SuperMuslims. Amin.

[poonnassunlix]

I really think Allah SWT is making you tougher because of this ordeal sister. This is how I feel whenever I see good Muslims dealing with rough situations. It just shows how strong they are. May Allah SWT make you sister seekeress and the rest of us SuperMuslims. Amin.

JazakILLAH khair sister and JazakumULLAH khair to everybody for being kind and responding to my humble request. Your responses made me cry. Aameen thumma Aameen to your duas.

Wassalam ma'al-ikram