[romalama]

Seriously. I mean this is one of My pet Peevs!!! (pun intended). So here's the case. My friend has a pitbull (as she calls it which pisses me off every time). Which may I add is in no way registered or tested or has been up to date on shots and more than likely is a mix bred cur not a cross bred mutt. Though all of this is true she asks me if she should breed her dog. So me course me being the ASS I am I told her straight. I asked her about all of the listed requirements. She said no to all.

So of course being the smart ASS I am I told her this. "What in the hell do you want to breed her for. Its a DAMN mutt for gods sake. You dnt even know if its pure!!! She has no papers no recognition no checks and no reason to be bred. I mean its like asking me when you should have sex!!! If you gotta ask someone else then dnt do it!!! I mean she's not even f***ing two.!!!" and she says "Well she's a good looking dog" i say "Dude you need temperament, durability, medical background, and genetics plus much more. You have none!!!. Plus there's enough DAMN dogs....no mutts in this world as it is!!! You need to forget this whole thing.

Your aren't even fit to breed a DAMN goldfish!!! Id been planning on getting a American pitbull terrier puppy weeks ago. And ya know what I dnt have it. Because I looked up just about everything about this magnificent breed and realized Im not ready yet. Id rather wait until Im done with school before taking on the responsibility of a breed which requires advanced ownership and training and restraint. You need to drop this and do your homework before you end up as one of the many two bit owners who've screwed up this wonderful breeds reputation In the first place." and she says "Well you dnt have to be such a Bitch about it "and I say

"Apparently I do because your just as f***ed up in the head as the rest of em all you care about is making money off piss poor puppies than improving the breed." and she says "Well you have a dog you we're going to breed before." and I tell her "That was 2 years ago and he is nine now so I wouldn't dream of it. Im tired of having this fruitless argument with you. Just remember what I said and think about your next step. And to make it clear remember this quote to."

"Good medicine often leaves a bitter taste." "In other words, advice may seem harsh to the ears, but it is for our own good." (The quote is from Okami btw its my fav videogame eveeeer!!! x3) But back on topic. Was i too harsh or do you think my...how do you say... "words of wisdom" will knock some sense into the idiotic girls head??? Man im pissed rite now... -_-'

[nursopoutaras]

You may have went over board. Your friend asked you before doing it which means she values your opinion. If she didnt care what you had to say she would have just done it and not discuss it with you. You cant kill someone for not knowing.

[HomePageOEMfreeSOFTWARE]

it's not that serious bro

[romalama]

I guess your right. It's just tht im tired of people constantly asking questions like these. Even while they know they aren't ready for the responsibility. I'll talk to her about it later. It's just that at the time i was upset as well as totally irritated. Tylenol didn't work too well today... -_-'

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Oui!, now that I've read my rant over. I feel like a jerk. ugh here comes the tiny violin... *notes*...maybe i will help her get the requirements and at least some experience. Just to prevent her from looking foolish. Don't get me wrong i love my friend. But of all people...I guess we'll just have to talk it over...after my migranes gone. -_-'

[MeatteCen]

Maybe a little extreme but thanks for saying it straight up.

[pataagusata]

Extreme? All I saw was honesty


-Gerry

[romalama]

Thanks you two tbh. The quotes I posted explains it all.

[Waymninelia]

You took the words right out of my mouth
Sometimes a kick in the butt at the right moment saves the day. Now if this person STILL breeds the dog, I would cut that person out of my life...
~shows what a ass they are~

[PymnImmen]

I think you did what was needed. I can say from experience..a simple..don't or small lecture..gets IGNORED. My own Aunt has a litter of 15 husky GSD crosses.....because I was polite about my objection.

[crycleascentyv]

Boo is now spayed. 4 different people are pissy with me because I did not breed her!

Gee, I do think she is nice looking and her ever changing color is kinda kool. And yes, I am a bit of a hard ass so she is well behaved, but that is not her temperent. If I could figure out how to breed good training into a blood line I sure would!

She is a craigslist freebiebull. Purebread craigslist freebiepittbull. I am sure they have equally as qualified dogs I could have paired her with.

[romalama]

I dnt tolerate that kind of question or thought from anyone in my circle and she knows this. So as any natural leader I straightened her out an made my rejection and retaliation clear.

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I just hope the...ya know "words of wisdom" drilled into that head of her's.

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I just hope the...ya know "words of wisdom" drilled into that head of her's.

[DoniandaCoado]

Boo is now spayed. 4 different people are pissy with me because I did not breed her!

Gee, I do think she is nice looking and her ever changing color is kinda kool. And yes, I am a bit of a hard ass so she is well behaved, but that is not her temperent. If I could figure out how to breed good training into a blood line I sure would!

She is a craigslist freebiebull. Purebread craigslist freebiepittbull. I am sure they have equally as qualified dogs I could have paired her with.

Haha, same with us. I was talking to one of my husband's co-workers, telling him how I was going to ask the vet about what would be the best time to "clip" him. This guy has the nerve to say "Why don't you breed him?". I started lecturing him about how there are too many dogs in this world and he interupted me with "But you don't even have to do anything, just sit back and collect the dough". Mind you this dog is 3 months old and also a "freebiepittbull". God only knows what he really is.

[romalama]

That Co-Worker is showing you ignorance at its very best. :lol

[Pypeassesty]

I would have done the same thing. I actually chewed out my friend's parents yesterday about wanting to breed their weird, unpapered, godawfully structured shepherd thing.

[romalama]

Lmao! @ Shephard thing

[DoniandaCoado]

Lmao! @ Shephard thing

I think if some of these shelters weren't so god damn picky we wouldn't have such a demand for puppy. I mean come on, my local shelter will only allow you to adopt a dog is A. you are home all day, if not you must be able to come home ever 3 hours or you must be able to bring your dog to work. (for puppies, I can understand but an adult dog that you have had a couple years does not need to have someone constantly with them) B. you have past vet references (so you can't be a first time owner?) C. they want $650 dollars (really? I understand vet bills and shelter fees but 650? Some vets around here don't even charge an office fee) and finally D. you must own your own home with more than an acre with a 6 foot fence (I don't think a tea cup poodle really needs this requirement).

We need to come up with a disincentive for these BYB. I think that's where shelter dogs come from, right?

We didn't qualify. We OWN our own home but because I only had vet references for a horse I guess we weren't good enough,.

[Quiniacab]

You may have went over board. Your friend asked you before doing it which means she values your opinion. If she didnt care what you had to say she would have just done it and not discuss it with you. You cant kill someone for not knowing.

i agree with this. i get your opinion but maybe the way it was handled was too harsh. she is a friend so i am assuming if you went about it in a friendly way trying to educate it may have went over better. from her response you posted it sounded like she was offended/suprised at your reponse but not for the information the way you told her by her saying Well you dnt have to be such a Bitch about it

[jyhugikuhih]

I'm a FIRM believer in "you catch more flies with honey than vinegar" type person. Not everyone thinks this way, but I think you could have explained to her why you feel the way you do, and gotten the point across and educated her where she would have "listened" to it more, if you had gone about it a little "kinder". Only time will tell if she listened to one word you said, but as old as I am, and with two grown kids to remind me, people have a tendency to tune you out once you start yelling.

[BDDkDvgZ]

Maybe could have been nicer about it, but Im glad you told her straight how it is!

[Nesskissabe]

hahaha this is funny I think you did a good job by speaking your mind.