My GF has gained weight (~7kg about 15 punds I think) - Page 2 - DiscussWorldIssues - Socio-Economic Religion and Political Uncensored Debate

**Gmvkgkmn** · 05-17-2009, 01:38 AM

But I care for her. What if I start doing this in 2 months? (I'll have time then) Or will she spiral into depression by then?

How would I know?

If you think she's worth it you go with her, otherwise ditch

**sauppyshurb** · 05-17-2009, 01:38 AM

Heraclitus, take a look at your avatar, damn. What would House do?

**FelixQY** · 05-17-2009, 01:42 AM

A thin hooker.

**Diandaplaipsy** · 05-17-2009, 01:42 AM

Actually this is normal.

Really? I've always broken up with girls slowly. The process took about a week. First I'd stop calling, then I'd meet her less often, I wouldn't have sex with her for a week and then I'd talk to her and tell her we just don't fit.

I can't imagine a girl hearing from her BF right after great sex that he dosen't want to ever see her again and not being hurt emotionally.

Now if you are talking about turning a GF into a ****buddy then I agree with you completley...

**Yinekol** · 05-17-2009, 01:44 AM

Lots of funny replies already, I certainly can't top them, so instead I'll try to offer some non-tongue-in-cheek advice.

15 pounds ain't that much. If that is enough to change your opinion of her, you may need to reexamine your standards. It sounds like you really care about her, so the best thing you can do is try to sympathize, and not try to solve her problems. It took me over 15 years of relationships variously crashing and burning before I figured this out. Women don't want men to solve their problems. Listen to her, sympathize with her, support her, offer to do anything she wants to (go on walks together, biking, diet, whatever).

**Peertantyb** · 05-17-2009, 01:47 AM

Lots of funny replies already, I certainly can't top them, so instead I'll try to offer some non-tongue-in-cheek advice.

15 pounds ain't that much. If that is enough to change your opinion of her, you may need to reexamine your standards. It sounds like you really care about her, so the best thing you can do is try to sympathize, and not try to solve her problems. It took me over 15 years of relationships variously crashing and burning before I figured this out. Women don't want men to solve their problems. Listen to her, sympathize with her, support her, offer to do anything she wants to (go on walks together, biking, diet, whatever).

Words, words, words. You sound like a fat chick.

**Automobill** · 05-17-2009, 01:49 AM

15 pounds ain't that much. If that is enough to change your opinion of her, you may need to reexamine your standards. It sounds like you really care about her, so the best thing you can do is try to sympathize, and not try to solve her problems. It took me over 15 years of relationships variously crashing and burning before I figured this out. Women don't want men to solve their problems. Listen to her, sympathize with her, support her, offer to do anything she wants to (go on walks together, biking, diet, whatever).

15 pounds in how long though? 30 becomes 45 then 60, then... still ok?

I think he's in his early twenties and he's fit (he says). Why should he put up with less from her?

**varrozans** · 05-17-2009, 01:51 AM

Heraclitus, take a look at your avatar, damn. What would House do?

I've lost the House vibe.

I've even lost some of my arogant physicist vibe.

OMG WHAT HAS THIS WOMAN DONE TO ME!

Hire a thin hooker and then he'd insult youre GF by calling her a prime candidate for diabetes.

I need to go back to my roots and rediscover the ideals I once held.

Thank you Krill for reminding me of how to return to the path of pure awesome.

Also all you guys have forgotten:

Porn dosen't get depressed or fat, ever.

**evammaUselp** · 05-17-2009, 01:52 AM

You slut! DO YOU THINK I HAVEN'T NOTICED ALL THOSE PREVERSE POSTS ABOUT PANDA ****ING! We are so broken up.

But Dale said it was so much fun!

**Stengapsept** · 05-17-2009, 01:54 AM

He even let Imran take part in some three somes with lei-lei and everything.

**soitlyobserty** · 05-17-2009, 01:56 AM

You know what the absolutely most awesome thing is? Hugh Laurie graduated from Cambridge with a THIRD class honours degree in ARCHEOLOGY and ANTHROPOLOGY.

**BenBoobmers** · 05-17-2009, 01:58 AM

He even let Imran take part in some three somes with lei-lei and everything.

OMG DALE IS SO DEAD!

**Lidawka** · 05-17-2009, 01:58 AM

You know what the absolutely most awesome thing is? Hugh Laurie graduated from Cambridge with a THIRD class honours degree in ARCHEOLOGY and ANTHROPOLOGY.

Yeah, that's awesome

**Irravepem** · 05-17-2009, 01:58 AM

**Ruiceara** · 05-17-2009, 01:59 AM

Exactly, all he does is give give give. And all she does is eat eat eat.

Apolyton the last bastion of man.

(though I don't quite agree this is a good description of the situation the statement is too awesome to let go without a

)

**pBiRXp8u** · 05-17-2009, 02:00 AM

**fkjghfg** · 05-17-2009, 02:02 AM

HOUSE DOESN'T NEED YOUR STINKING ITALICS!!!1!

05-17-2009, 01:38 AM	#21
Gmvkgkmn Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 451 Senior Member	But I care for her. What if I start doing this in 2 months? (I'll have time then) Or will she spiral into depression by then? How would I know? If you think she's worth it you go with her, otherwise ditch Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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sauppyshurb Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 451 Senior Member	Heraclitus, take a look at your avatar, damn. What would House do? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-17-2009, 01:42 AM	#23
FelixQY Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 601 Senior Member	A thin hooker. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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Diandaplaipsy Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 384 Senior Member	Actually this is normal. Really? I've always broken up with girls slowly. The process took about a week. First I'd stop calling, then I'd meet her less often, I wouldn't have sex with her for a week and then I'd talk to her and tell her we just don't fit. I can't imagine a girl hearing from her BF right after great sex that he dosen't want to ever see her again and not being hurt emotionally. Now if you are talking about turning a GF into a ****buddy then I agree with you completley... Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-17-2009, 01:44 AM	#25
Yinekol Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 480 Senior Member	Lots of funny replies already, I certainly can't top them, so instead I'll try to offer some non-tongue-in-cheek advice. 15 pounds ain't that much. If that is enough to change your opinion of her, you may need to reexamine your standards. It sounds like you really care about her, so the best thing you can do is try to sympathize, and not try to solve her problems. It took me over 15 years of relationships variously crashing and burning before I figured this out. Women don't want men to solve their problems. Listen to her, sympathize with her, support her, offer to do anything she wants to (go on walks together, biking, diet, whatever). Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-17-2009, 01:47 AM	#26
Peertantyb Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 497 Senior Member	Lots of funny replies already, I certainly can't top them, so instead I'll try to offer some non-tongue-in-cheek advice. 15 pounds ain't that much. If that is enough to change your opinion of her, you may need to reexamine your standards. It sounds like you really care about her, so the best thing you can do is try to sympathize, and not try to solve her problems. It took me over 15 years of relationships variously crashing and burning before I figured this out. Women don't want men to solve their problems. Listen to her, sympathize with her, support her, offer to do anything she wants to (go on walks together, biking, diet, whatever). Words, words, words. You sound like a fat chick. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-17-2009, 01:49 AM	#27
Automobill Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 632 Senior Member	15 pounds ain't that much. If that is enough to change your opinion of her, you may need to reexamine your standards. It sounds like you really care about her, so the best thing you can do is try to sympathize, and not try to solve her problems. It took me over 15 years of relationships variously crashing and burning before I figured this out. Women don't want men to solve their problems. Listen to her, sympathize with her, support her, offer to do anything she wants to (go on walks together, biking, diet, whatever). 15 pounds in how long though? 30 becomes 45 then 60, then... still ok? I think he's in his early twenties and he's fit (he says). Why should he put up with less from her? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-17-2009, 01:51 AM	#28
varrozans Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 390 Senior Member	Heraclitus, take a look at your avatar, damn. What would House do? I've lost the House vibe. I've even lost some of my arogant physicist vibe. OMG WHAT HAS THIS WOMAN DONE TO ME! Hire a thin hooker and then he'd insult youre GF by calling her a prime candidate for diabetes. I need to go back to my roots and rediscover the ideals I once held. Thank you Krill for reminding me of how to return to the path of pure awesome. Also all you guys have forgotten: Porn dosen't get depressed or fat, ever. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-17-2009, 01:52 AM	#29
evammaUselp Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 427 Senior Member	You slut! DO YOU THINK I HAVEN'T NOTICED ALL THOSE PREVERSE POSTS ABOUT PANDA ****ING! We are so broken up. But Dale said it was so much fun! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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Stengapsept Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 651 Senior Member	He even let Imran take part in some three somes with lei-lei and everything. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-17-2009, 01:56 AM	#31
soitlyobserty Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 455 Senior Member	You know what the absolutely most awesome thing is? Hugh Laurie graduated from Cambridge with a THIRD class honours degree in ARCHEOLOGY and ANTHROPOLOGY. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-17-2009, 01:58 AM	#32
BenBoobmers Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 388 Senior Member	He even let Imran take part in some three somes with lei-lei and everything. OMG DALE IS SO DEAD! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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Lidawka Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 537 Senior Member	You know what the absolutely most awesome thing is? Hugh Laurie graduated from Cambridge with a THIRD class honours degree in ARCHEOLOGY and ANTHROPOLOGY. Yeah, that's awesome Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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Ruiceara Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 492 Senior Member	Exactly, all he does is give give give. And all she does is eat eat eat. Apolyton the last bastion of man. (though I don't quite agree this is a good description of the situation the statement is too awesome to let go without a ) Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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