[pupyississido]

Well I know....never had a serious relationship

that doesnt mean you should jump into marrying the first girl who shows you attention.

eh what do i know. not enough to give advice. good luck on the marriage!
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[StevenS]

Well I know....never had a serious relationship

watch ferris bueller...words of wisdom are contained in that movie near the end.

[codecouponqw]

tbh one of the problems is myself, and the fact that i've gone wanting a long term g/f to just wanting to screw every girl i see walking about town....i think they can see it in my eyes.

haha man i have that same problem. been too long and now i cant help but check out every piece of ass i see and believe me its not helping.

[estelle]

www.laddertheory.com


Read this site and as previously mentioned "The Game" by Neil Strauss, and you will have all the knowledge you need.

[PetraCromlich]

About 5 years?

Hasn't been much of a necessity for me although it's sorta becoming a sort of pressure. Since all the friends I hang around with all are hooked up.

[Liskaspexia]

that doesnt mean you should jump into marrying the first girl who shows you attention.

Agreed.

Trust me, girls are a rare thing for me. I just met someone not long ago and it's easy to to think that they could be someone special, simply because someone is showing some attention. In the end it was confusing the hell out of me. In reality I knew it just wouldn't work. But you also want to hold on. In the end I made the decision not to go after her. Funny enough the next day she says she's found another guy. Well that just confirms everything doesn't it...

So make sure you get to know the girl inside and out... not just inside. [rofl]

[Kemapreedasse]

Ooh it's not really the relationship i'm bothered about. Just "attention" from the other sex i suppose.
Least you've been getting "treats" lol.

I've stopped wanting another half tbh. I've grown pretty fed up of women and all i think of when i see me now is "nice ass, nice tits, nice face.....i wanna screw you"
But i don't care...i've always respected girls in the past. They never respected me....blah blah blah etc etc.


GamerG you sound a bit like me!

Ha, I'm actually the opposite. What I find myself wishing I had was someone to join me when I go out to dinners and day/weekend trips and stuff like that. I've got season tickets for hockey and I would just love to have someone next to me at those games or when I go to movies. That probably makes me sound like a huge loser but honestly, I'm really happy with day to day life most the time. I'm not to lonely on average and I don't need someone just to always be around at home and when I go to class and what not (I'm sure it would be nice, but at least I don't feel like it's missing from my life), but it is those times when I go out somewhere that I do feel it missing.

I don't think I'm all that bad with making friends with girls either but it seems that just everyone I start talking to and making friends with are already paired up with someone else. Everyone I work with has someone, even the gays and lesbian, so I don't really hang out with my coworkers much, even though I get along with them really well, and so far everyone I've met at school has been with someone or already married!!! I don't drink so bars are not my scene and I don't party so local clubs really aren't my scene, I'm probably boring but I do get out in public. I go to school and work and stuff and everyone that's cute always seems to be with someone to mentions their boyfriend or husband when I do start to get to know them. I probably would have been a good candidate for arranged marriages or something [rofl]

[Clarissa]

Like yesterday, apparently we broke up, I'm so effing depressed right now that I feel I should start a
thread about it. Just ignore them and they'll come back to you.

[bomondus]

3 years is my longest time being single

[artofeyyy]

when i was younger i was just a bit of a b*stard after splitting with a girlfriend and found it done wonders for me infact i think the longest i been with out a girlfriend or sex since 15 is about 2 weeks, thats because i was in another country working while my missus was at home.

[egexgfczc]

6 months a long time ago.

[DumbNelmcrece]

Like yesterday, apparently we broke up, I'm so effing depressed right now that I feel I should start a
thread about it. Just ignore them and they'll come back to you.

Hmmm?

Are you taking the piss or are you serious?


There's over 6 billion people on this earth.....that girl whom you may be "depressing over" is just one of them. Don't waste your time and energy thinking about her.....jezus i wasted over a year of my life over some ****ing shithead girl.

[indocrew]

What I dont understand is how can you go out looking for a relationship? Its like going out to drive a car in race when youve never driven a car before.

Date people, a day, a few days, one night - friends of friends, someone at a bar. Get some experience, learn and use that to get someone you're really after.

Oh and its over two years since i had a relationship.

[Gaiaakgyyyg]

What I dont understand is how can you go out looking for a relationship? Its like going out to drive a car in race when youve never driven a car before.

Date people, a day, a few days, one night - friends of friends, someone at a bar. Get some experience, learn and use that to get someone you're really after.

Oh and its over two years since i had a relationship.

I'm entirely in agreement, this whole looking for a relationship tomfoolery is why fellas end up with such rough house tramps.

You also have to learn to ignore rejections and move on, for every 10 no's there's a couple of maybes and almost definately a yes.

[alias]

26 Years my age until 3 weeks ago

Met the woman of my dreams...probably will get engaged soon

I was engaged to my ex, was sposed to get married July the 6th, I was on the plane heading out of the country July 1st lol, I made a run for the border. We had some problems and I realized getting married wont fix them, but add tons more

[DumbNelmcrece]

I was engaged to my ex, was sposed to get married July the 6th, I was on the plane heading out of the country July 1st lol, I made a run for the border. We had some problems and I realized getting married wont fix them, but add tons more

lol...

My ex told me she hadn't loved me for a few months.

In those few months we rented a house, got a puppy......got another puppy....were previously engaged.

Infact she thought of every possible "fix" apart from "COMMUNICATION".

stupid girl..... why would getting a house and a lil dog fix our "problems"....problems which i wasn't even aware of!!

[PymnImmen]

I'm currently 18 (nearly 19) and i've never really had a girlfriend.

My biggest problem is that I need to engage an interesting conversation with some good humour to make her laugh as well as to sound exciting yourself, but i'm absolutely crap at it and because of this, I never really gather any interest off any girls. [no] I don't really know how to just go about meeting a girl either to make it lead to a 'proper' conversation.

Few tips anyone?

hmm,

i used to be just like that, and i don't wanna sound mean, but spend more time socializing and you will start to know what to talk about, make jokes EVEN if they're stupid, remember its not what you say its how you say it. You can be talking CRAP but if your saying it in a way that will have people convinced and make them laugh then you can get any girl you want.

Confidence is the sexier than any organ on your body, know that.

[Kemapreedasse]

hmm,

i used to be just like that, and i don't wanna sound mean, but spend more time socializing and you will start to know what to talk about, make jokes EVEN if they're stupid, remember its not what you say its how you say it. You can be talking CRAP but if your saying it in a way that will have people convinced and make them laugh then you can get any girl you want.

Confidence is the sexier than any organ on your body, know that.

Then you'll come to find out just about all the cute girls already have someone, at least you'll be past the "how do I start talking to them" problem

[Fertionbratte]

lol...

My ex told me she hadn't loved me for a few months.

In those few months we rented a house, got a puppy......got another puppy....were previously engaged.

Infact she thought of every possible "fix" apart from "COMMUNICATION".

stupid girl..... why would getting a house and a lil dog fix our "problems"....problems which i wasn't even aware of!!

been there mate, same thing with one of my ex's even told me she wanted me to get her a ring a week before we broke up

my theory currently is women are not worth the hassle unless you find a really good one, at the moment single is good for me as i do what i want when i want and have more money as well

got screwed by the last 2 women i was seeing, then again i know that i am going to start wanting to find someone in future but i am happy with this as they are currently

[Clarissa]

Hmmm?

Are you taking the piss or are you serious?


There's over 6 billion people on this earth.....that girl whom you may be "depressing over" is just one of them. Don't waste your time and energy thinking about her.....jezus i wasted over a year of my life over some ****ing shithead girl.

I'm dead serious, but this has been resolved as of now. I love this girl to death, I really think she's my soulmate. We are doing long distance though and she's in college and it's very difficult for both of us right now. So we are kinda taking a break from each other. We are not doing this in order to have sex with other people as most of you might think, we are doing this because we are both not happy with the current situation, and taking a break in a "long distance" relationship can actually be a good thing because I let her do the things she wants. If we were taking a break and she was still in town, I'd probably run the other direction.
Funny thing is when you have a gf, there's always loads of girls after you.
I put on my facebook yesterday that I was ...
and today I get this....

"Aww im sorry you had such a bad day yesterday but you should cheer up because you are too cute to be sad! I don't pick up my phone much but i will always text back. So you can text me ***-***-**** I better hear from you today!"