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**insightmike** · 10-19-2007, 01:37 AM

I'm dead serious, but this has been resolved as of now. I love this girl to death, I really think she's my soulmate. We are doing long distance though and she's in college and it's very difficult for both of us right now. So we are kinda taking a break from each other. We are not doing this in order to have sex with other people as most of you might think, we are doing this because we are both not happy with the current situation, and taking a break in a "long distance" relationship can actually be a good thing because I let her do the things she wants. If we were taking a break and she was still in town, I'd probably run the other direction.
Funny thing is when you have a gf, there's always loads of girls after you.
I put on my facebook yesterday that I was ...
and today I get this....

"Aww im sorry you had such a bad day yesterday but you should cheer up because you are too cute to be sad! I don't pick up my phone much but i will always text back. So you can text me ***-***-**** I better hear from you today!"

How old are you?

First of all, there is no such thing as a relationship that is long distance and in a "break" status....its over man, you can fight it in your mind all you want, but she is too scared to tell you that she is DONE with it...she is going to lead you to believe that it is just a break. Shes probably a good girl, but she is with other men. Sorry.

As far as that message you got, that does NOT mean anything more than what it said. The reason girls are willing to talk to you more, not "all over you", is because if you say you have a girlfreind, that means they can breath a sigh of relief because they think you wont be hitting on them....

Not trying to be rude, but you are reading all the signs wrong, and are in for a BIG hurt.

**codecouponqw** · 10-19-2007, 01:57 AM

How old are you?

First of all, there is no such thing as a relationship that is long distance and in a "break" status....its over man, you can fight it in your mind all you want, but she is too scared to tell you that she is DONE with it...she is going to lead you to believe that it is just a break. Shes probably a good girl, but she is with other men. Sorry.

As far as that message you got, that does NOT mean anything more than what it said. The reason girls are willing to talk to you more, not "all over you", is because if you say you have a girlfreind, that means they can breath a sigh of relief because they think you wont be hitting on them....

Not trying to be rude, but you are reading all the signs wrong, and are in for a BIG hurt.

ooooh harsh

but true...

**Nicihntm** · 10-19-2007, 02:42 AM

Ive been mostly single since 2002 but I had a very bad experience and I have lost the trust thats needed in a lasting relation ship.

this thread should be titled last time you had sex.

that was 4 months ago

**Clarissa** · 10-19-2007, 02:53 AM

ooooh harsh

but true...

I have to agree that from an outside point of view, where you really don't know about the two people
involved in the relationship, that this would be true. But there are exceptions to this,
and I will get back to both of you when things settle. Not all relationships end like that,
and not all women are the same... just like you met your woman, it would be easy to jump
on a stereotype and say things won't work out because you met her at a bar.

Also...10 bucks I can hook up with that chic in the next two weeks if I wanted.

**insightmike** · 10-19-2007, 03:22 AM

I have to agree that from an outside point of view, where you really don't know about the two people
involved in the relationship, that this would be true. But there are exceptions to this,
and I will get back to both of you when things settle. Not all relationships end like that,
and not all women are the same... just like you met your woman, it would be easy to jump
on a stereotype and say things won't work out because you met her at a bar.

Also...10 bucks I can hook up with that chic in the next two weeks if I wanted.

fair enough m8

**Barryrich** · 10-19-2007, 03:31 AM

Well i lost my virginity at 26 and got my first girlfriend, (had the bint for about 4 years) so by my calculations the next time i should get my end away i should be about 52

cant wait

**Quick$bux** · 10-19-2007, 06:24 AM

23 years[rolleyes] with pretty much nothing and no girlfriend

**LxtdK9i4** · 10-19-2007, 06:42 AM

Wow...I think I am not the only one here then

**Nwxffgke** · 10-19-2007, 06:55 AM

Theres some funny **** in here [rofl]

To whoever said "probably get engaged to her soon", its ur first girlfriend, how'd u know shes the right one? does she know ur planning for weddings and stuff? how long u been together? ... sounds like when ur 14 and say "I love u" after having sex when really u just have no idea what ur saying and it just sounds good so u say it LOL ... I know girls get scared if u say "I love u" after a short period of time, they think ur crazy and weird .. no joke.

As for the "Im 23/24/25/26 and not had a relationship" .. stop playing on ur PC/Games Console and go meet some women!! Sex is better than ANY game .... yes even Halo!!!" [rofl]

**zenihan** · 10-19-2007, 07:01 AM

Theres some funny **** in here [rofl]

To whoever said "probably get engaged to her soon", its ur first girlfriend, how'd u know shes the right one? does she know ur planning for weddings and stuff? how long u been together? ... sounds like when ur 14 and say "I love u" after having sex when really u just have no idea what ur saying and it just sounds good so u say it LOL ... I know girls get scared if u say "I love u" after a short period of time, they think ur crazy and weird .. no joke.

As for the "Im 23/24/25/26 and not had a relationship" .. stop playing on ur PC/Games Console and go meet some women!! Sex is better than ANY game .... yes even Halo!!!" [rofl]

How can anything be better than Halo? /boggle

**PeterPatrickJohn** · 10-19-2007, 07:17 AM

lol you folks are talking like it's just for the sex.. not for everyone it is like that.. sure it's great and all, but if you know you found the right person and it clicks there is no reason why not to get engaged just to see what sex is like with other chicks.. My parents got married after 3 months and they have been together for almost 30 years now. My brother recently got married after 6 months and it's also going very well (kid upcoming).. I guess it all depends on the way people think and what they see in a woman.. For some it's basically a good sex toy with maybe some other benefits and for others it's a best friend and lover. If you prefer a good sex toy, so be it, but I rather look for the long run.

**Kilsimpaile** · 10-19-2007, 07:19 AM

The period between 16 and 20. 4 Years. Must say they were a good 4 years!

**posimoka** · 10-19-2007, 08:09 AM

I didn't have a girlfriend or have sex for 4.5 years. I did other things in the meantime. Nothing wrong with being single unless you don't want to be single.

Shut up about ladder theory. It's written by nerds that just suck with women and probably people in general that intellectualize why they're losers. I'm an ubergeek and have pretty good luck with women when I try. Christ, even the Pick-up Artist show was better than the bullcrap about ladder theory.

**DumbNelmcrece** · 10-19-2007, 10:53 PM

i got a reply from puzzle.....

But it's not here?

But it's in my inbox?

Something about dogs, balls and licking.....

lol.

Anyway..... you cannot tell a guy/girl what to do in a relationship half the time.
They have to learn!

**Lgcjqxlw** · 10-19-2007, 11:26 PM

This thread makes me glad I was married long before becoming a computer geek! LOL

**tq4F7YKs** · 10-20-2007, 12:27 AM

This thread makes me glad I was married long before becoming a computer geek! LOL

Why?

Chicks love geeks, dude. Just don't go uber-geek on them.

Chicks know geeks are smart. Chicks know geeks are stable. Chicks know a geek can provide steady income, and high income at that. Chicks know geeks can fix a lot of ****.

Whereas, what can the pretty boys do? Sit and look pretty? Oookay. So, for a one night lay, that's all great and grand, but really. . .it's pointless.

Most of the girls I ask that have a brain enjoy the geeks. They're a challenge. They're fun. And generally, they're not shallow.

**Lgcjqxlw** · 10-20-2007, 01:08 AM

Why?

Chicks love geeks, dude. Just don't go uber-geek on them.

Chicks know geeks are smart. Chicks know geeks are stable. Chicks know a geek can provide steady income, and high income at that. Chicks know geeks can fix a lot of ****.

Whereas, what can the pretty boys do? Sit and look pretty? Oookay. So, for a one night lay, that's all great and grand, but really. . .it's pointless.

Most of the girls I ask that have a brain enjoy the geeks. They're a challenge. They're fun. And generally, they're not shallow.

In no way am I saying that if I wasn't married before my computer geekyness kicked in, I would be sexless. TBH I feel that would be quite the opposite for me. I'm just glad that the issues of being single do not effect me. I definately would not want to feel pressed to find someone and I hope that things work out for you guys!

**fkisjjdhh** · 10-20-2007, 01:22 AM

Some women are more stimulated by someone's intellectual abilities, some by physical/visual traits and some by both. Just like us.

Not all women ( same as men ) want serious relationships and talk about emotions. Some enjoy the good ol fashioned sex without strings.

There's more to making more money, fixing electronics and having brains. One of my friend's relationship is pretty shitty right now, he makes 80g's a year, drives a 350z , super smart guy.. athletic and he's a fixer upper around the house but can't treat a girl/woman how she's supposed to be treated.

Go for the girls that are interested in what you have to offer, although there are always exceptions

Don't be depressed/saddened by the fact you don't have someone else in your life right now, when the time is right it will happen. Single life is great, and so is with your partner. There's advantages to both

**selayeffethy** · 10-20-2007, 01:54 AM

i was single for 17 years... then i found and dated a girl for a year and a half... we just broke up... some what mutually because we are both goin to different colleges and there is just alot more out there. But we both agreed that we are gonna date other people and see whats out there and sometime within the next few months we are gonna go on a date w/ each other and see how things are going and if we want to be back together... so far i have been single for 6 days... and its been hard as hell... just because we both loved each other so much... plus we were both each others 1st time... but yea 6 days... going on a week longest for me so far

**evarekataVame** · 10-20-2007, 02:34 AM

maybe about 2 years. split up from latest girlfriend in march i think.

10-19-2007, 01:37 AM	#61
insightmike Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 529 Senior Member	I'm dead serious, but this has been resolved as of now. I love this girl to death, I really think she's my soulmate. We are doing long distance though and she's in college and it's very difficult for both of us right now. So we are kinda taking a break from each other. We are not doing this in order to have sex with other people as most of you might think, we are doing this because we are both not happy with the current situation, and taking a break in a "long distance" relationship can actually be a good thing because I let her do the things she wants. If we were taking a break and she was still in town, I'd probably run the other direction. Funny thing is when you have a gf, there's always loads of girls after you. I put on my facebook yesterday that I was ... and today I get this.... "Aww im sorry you had such a bad day yesterday but you should cheer up because you are too cute to be sad! I don't pick up my phone much but i will always text back. So you can text me *--*** I better hear from you today!" How old are you? First of all, there is no such thing as a relationship that is long distance and in a "break" status....its over man, you can fight it in your mind all you want, but she is too scared to tell you that she is DONE with it...she is going to lead you to believe that it is just a break. Shes probably a good girl, but she is with other men. Sorry. As far as that message you got, that does NOT mean anything more than what it said. The reason girls are willing to talk to you more, not "all over you", is because if you say you have a girlfreind, that means they can breath a sigh of relief because they think you wont be hitting on them.... Not trying to be rude, but you are reading all the signs wrong, and are in for a BIG hurt. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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codecouponqw Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 547 Senior Member	How old are you? First of all, there is no such thing as a relationship that is long distance and in a "break" status....its over man, you can fight it in your mind all you want, but she is too scared to tell you that she is DONE with it...she is going to lead you to believe that it is just a break. Shes probably a good girl, but she is with other men. Sorry. As far as that message you got, that does NOT mean anything more than what it said. The reason girls are willing to talk to you more, not "all over you", is because if you say you have a girlfreind, that means they can breath a sigh of relief because they think you wont be hitting on them.... Not trying to be rude, but you are reading all the signs wrong, and are in for a BIG hurt. ooooh harsh but true... Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-19-2007, 02:42 AM	#63
Nicihntm Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 562 Senior Member	Ive been mostly single since 2002 but I had a very bad experience and I have lost the trust thats needed in a lasting relation ship. this thread should be titled last time you had sex. that was 4 months ago Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-19-2007, 02:53 AM	#64
Clarissa Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 441 Senior Member	ooooh harsh but true... I have to agree that from an outside point of view, where you really don't know about the two people involved in the relationship, that this would be true. But there are exceptions to this, and I will get back to both of you when things settle. Not all relationships end like that, and not all women are the same... just like you met your woman, it would be easy to jump on a stereotype and say things won't work out because you met her at a bar. Also...10 bucks I can hook up with that chic in the next two weeks if I wanted. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-19-2007, 03:22 AM	#65
insightmike Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 529 Senior Member	I have to agree that from an outside point of view, where you really don't know about the two people involved in the relationship, that this would be true. But there are exceptions to this, and I will get back to both of you when things settle. Not all relationships end like that, and not all women are the same... just like you met your woman, it would be easy to jump on a stereotype and say things won't work out because you met her at a bar. Also...10 bucks I can hook up with that chic in the next two weeks if I wanted. fair enough m8 Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-19-2007, 03:31 AM	#66
Barryrich Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 609 Senior Member	Well i lost my virginity at 26 and got my first girlfriend, (had the bint for about 4 years) so by my calculations the next time i should get my end away i should be about 52 cant wait Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-19-2007, 06:24 AM	#67
Quick$bux Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 571 Senior Member	23 years[rolleyes] with pretty much nothing and no girlfriend Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-19-2007, 06:42 AM	#68
LxtdK9i4 Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 433 Senior Member	Wow...I think I am not the only one here then Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-19-2007, 06:55 AM	#69
Nwxffgke Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 550 Senior Member	Theres some funny **** in here [rofl] To whoever said "probably get engaged to her soon", its ur first girlfriend, how'd u know shes the right one? does she know ur planning for weddings and stuff? how long u been together? ... sounds like when ur 14 and say "I love u" after having sex when really u just have no idea what ur saying and it just sounds good so u say it LOL ... I know girls get scared if u say "I love u" after a short period of time, they think ur crazy and weird .. no joke. As for the "Im 23/24/25/26 and not had a relationship" .. stop playing on ur PC/Games Console and go meet some women!! Sex is better than ANY game .... yes even Halo!!!" [rofl] Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-19-2007, 07:01 AM	#70
zenihan Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 485 Senior Member	Theres some funny **** in here [rofl] To whoever said "probably get engaged to her soon", its ur first girlfriend, how'd u know shes the right one? does she know ur planning for weddings and stuff? how long u been together? ... sounds like when ur 14 and say "I love u" after having sex when really u just have no idea what ur saying and it just sounds good so u say it LOL ... I know girls get scared if u say "I love u" after a short period of time, they think ur crazy and weird .. no joke. As for the "Im 23/24/25/26 and not had a relationship" .. stop playing on ur PC/Games Console and go meet some women!! Sex is better than ANY game .... yes even Halo!!!" [rofl] How can anything be better than Halo? /boggle Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-19-2007, 07:17 AM	#71
PeterPatrickJohn Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 475 Senior Member	lol you folks are talking like it's just for the sex.. not for everyone it is like that.. sure it's great and all, but if you know you found the right person and it clicks there is no reason why not to get engaged just to see what sex is like with other chicks.. My parents got married after 3 months and they have been together for almost 30 years now. My brother recently got married after 6 months and it's also going very well (kid upcoming).. I guess it all depends on the way people think and what they see in a woman.. For some it's basically a good sex toy with maybe some other benefits and for others it's a best friend and lover. If you prefer a good sex toy, so be it, but I rather look for the long run. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-19-2007, 07:19 AM	#72
Kilsimpaile Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 495 Senior Member	The period between 16 and 20. 4 Years. Must say they were a good 4 years! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-19-2007, 08:09 AM	#73
posimoka Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 423 Senior Member	I didn't have a girlfriend or have sex for 4.5 years. I did other things in the meantime. Nothing wrong with being single unless you don't want to be single. Shut up about ladder theory. It's written by nerds that just suck with women and probably people in general that intellectualize why they're losers. I'm an ubergeek and have pretty good luck with women when I try. Christ, even the Pick-up Artist show was better than the bullcrap about ladder theory. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-19-2007, 10:53 PM	#74
DumbNelmcrece Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 459 Senior Member	i got a reply from puzzle..... But it's not here? But it's in my inbox? Something about dogs, balls and licking..... lol. Anyway..... you cannot tell a guy/girl what to do in a relationship half the time. They have to learn! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-19-2007, 11:26 PM	#75
Lgcjqxlw Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 480 Senior Member	This thread makes me glad I was married long before becoming a computer geek! LOL Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-20-2007, 12:27 AM	#76
tq4F7YKs Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 463 Senior Member	This thread makes me glad I was married long before becoming a computer geek! LOL Why? Chicks love geeks, dude. Just don't go uber-geek on them. Chicks know geeks are smart. Chicks know geeks are stable. Chicks know a geek can provide steady income, and high income at that. Chicks know geeks can fix a lot of ****. Whereas, what can the pretty boys do? Sit and look pretty? Oookay. So, for a one night lay, that's all great and grand, but really. . .it's pointless. Most of the girls I ask that have a brain enjoy the geeks. They're a challenge. They're fun. And generally, they're not shallow. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-20-2007, 01:08 AM	#77
Lgcjqxlw Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 480 Senior Member	Why? Chicks love geeks, dude. Just don't go uber-geek on them. Chicks know geeks are smart. Chicks know geeks are stable. Chicks know a geek can provide steady income, and high income at that. Chicks know geeks can fix a lot of ****. Whereas, what can the pretty boys do? Sit and look pretty? Oookay. So, for a one night lay, that's all great and grand, but really. . .it's pointless. Most of the girls I ask that have a brain enjoy the geeks. They're a challenge. They're fun. And generally, they're not shallow. In no way am I saying that if I wasn't married before my computer geekyness kicked in, I would be sexless. TBH I feel that would be quite the opposite for me. I'm just glad that the issues of being single do not effect me. I definately would not want to feel pressed to find someone and I hope that things work out for you guys! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-20-2007, 01:22 AM	#78
fkisjjdhh Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 460 Senior Member	Some women are more stimulated by someone's intellectual abilities, some by physical/visual traits and some by both. Just like us. Not all women ( same as men ) want serious relationships and talk about emotions. Some enjoy the good ol fashioned sex without strings. There's more to making more money, fixing electronics and having brains. One of my friend's relationship is pretty shitty right now, he makes 80g's a year, drives a 350z , super smart guy.. athletic and he's a fixer upper around the house but can't treat a girl/woman how she's supposed to be treated. Go for the girls that are interested in what you have to offer, although there are always exceptions Don't be depressed/saddened by the fact you don't have someone else in your life right now, when the time is right it will happen. Single life is great, and so is with your partner. There's advantages to both Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-20-2007, 01:54 AM	#79
selayeffethy Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 473 Senior Member	i was single for 17 years... then i found and dated a girl for a year and a half... we just broke up... some what mutually because we are both goin to different colleges and there is just alot more out there. But we both agreed that we are gonna date other people and see whats out there and sometime within the next few months we are gonna go on a date w/ each other and see how things are going and if we want to be back together... so far i have been single for 6 days... and its been hard as hell... just because we both loved each other so much... plus we were both each others 1st time... but yea 6 days... going on a week longest for me so far Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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10-20-2007, 02:34 AM	#80
evarekataVame Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 590 Senior Member	maybe about 2 years. split up from latest girlfriend in march i think. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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