[WhiliaStelt]

Preach it Cubase!


Dont let her treat you like a little bitch while she stuffs around "making up her mind" (which i think is bollocks anyway, shes either attracted to you or she isnt, and like cubase said, by not acting alpha, decisive, assertive and confident you are only hurting your case)

Just leave it and dont contact her until she contacts you, go off and play video games or whatever it is you like to do.

[enurihent]

You know this is probably one of the most entertaining threads I have read in a long time.

The gap between those who know what they are talking about (from experience) and those who don't (from lack thereof) is huge. [rofl]

Lets just cut to the chase here:

Life's too short to spend time messing around with someone who cannot make up their mind. And odds are this is testament to this person's general character, which means that just because you might convince her to date you (after wasting your time for god knows how long), it does not mean she will magically become more articulate in her decisions.

If a girl says she "thinks" she likes you, tell her to get back to you once she makes up her mind, and that in the meantime you are either going to be dating someone else or playing video games. But for god sake don't wait for a girl to make up her mind! It's like saying to a lion "please eat me slowly, I want to savour every little bit of pain!".

It's a vicious cycle because she is deliberating on whether or not you are worth it (which is an insult to any bloke with an ounce of self respect), and instead of putting a foot down, you are waiting in gross anticipation which signifies that you are not a very self confident and assertive individual, qualities which she picks up on, and which contribute to her hesitation to date you.

Hey, it might seem harsh, or brutal but I can guarantee that if you were in her position there is not chance in hell a decent girl with an ounce of self respect will wait for you to umm and ahh about the prospect of dating her.

Good luck eh.

I agree with Cubase.
No girl wants a weak man. And no man can live with a girl that wants to be with him one day but not the next, just to come back the day after that.

That's the kind of girl that will end up cheating on you.

[spapsinee]

so I'm interested to know what happened?

[Efksqhyu]

I agree with Cubase.
No girl wants a weak man. And no man can live with a girl that wants to be with him one day but not the next, just to come back the day after that.

That's the kind of girl that will end up cheating on you.

That's why you give her two in the pink, one in the stink, and squeeze. Show her you ain't weak and can take control.

[UBJ3kvP1]

Well she sent me a few txt's saying she doesn't know what she wants. I told her what I want and that I'm here but not forever.

Good job man. Now just play it cool, don't bring it up, and do your own thing. The ball is in her court and if you keep trying to approach her about this subject, she'll just pull back. So play everything cool and don't bring this up to her anymore.

[Efksqhyu]

Good job man. Now just play it cool, don't bring it up, and do your own thing. The ball is in her court and if you keep trying to approach her about this subject, she'll just pull back. So play everything cool and don't bring this up to her anymore.

No, you're supposed to KEEP asking them. Perseverance (or however you spell it) pays off. Show 'em you won't take no for an answer.

After all, nothing says "I love you" like a restraining order.

[Niiinioa]

i think shes probably just lonely but if you play your cards right you could probably use her for no strings attached sex