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**BeaseHoca** · 02-07-2007, 06:48 AM

At that age, i would be very surprised if she isn't living with her parents. What sort of feedback have you had in that respect? If she is, indeed, living at home, I'd suggest not getting a gift for her - spooky - but rather a simple gift that a house guest may bring, such as wine, flowers or the like.

I'm a little concerned about the girls mental state, though, I suspect she's developing a bit of a crush/fixation on you, so be careful.

However, if things work out it could be quite wonderful.

Good luck and make sure you leave details with your friends/family in case you go missing.

**qQVXpYM6** · 03-06-2007, 07:30 AM

Is the poster 100% sure this "she" isn't a "he". I would pack some lube just in case.

**Obebtetibre** · 03-06-2007, 08:21 AM

ROFL @ the lube!!!! although meeting up with people you met over the internet is considered quite risky there are certain things etc that can be down etc to minimize risks, i myself am actually planning to visit 2 mates (a guy and his brother and along with some of their mates ive chatted too on numerous occasions) maybe in the summer time, i met them on the internet over 4 years ago now and we regularly chat online and have a laugh, play multiplay games etc (was on multiplay games we all met, BHD i believe it was) and generally get on well like guys should. weve been on Cam to eachother numerous times like so we all know who were talking to etc and often used teamspeak or Skype to chat at the same time so tis a more realistic interaction. in this case i know that these guys are guys and that we get on really well, into Gaming and PC's and Cars etc so throughout the 4 years weve known eachother we have kinda developed a really good friendship. along with getting to know eachother well too over the 4 years. But you have known this supposed "girl" for only a few weeks? if i were you i would give it at least a year before doing somert like going to see her as if it is indeed some old bloke then over the year he might give up or you may catch him out on his lies. you say that youve seen vids? now is that recorded videos sent through file transfer be it on msn or to your phone. Or was it live webcam chat? if it was file transfered then sumerts up as it could well just be some vids he downloaded from somewhere or that "he" recorded one of his "victims" before disposing of them??? live web cam would be very diff, a good idea to do too is get their house phone number, then ring at an unexpected time and see who answers, then ask if whatever her name is available- if she is then she will speak to you and good good? maybe???? but if a man answers and says sorry shes unavailable or stutters or pauses during his answer [no] but meh if u still insist on going without taking the safety measures then yeah leave details with family or watever and tell them dont count on you coming home.

**KimLinbert** · 03-06-2007, 09:39 AM

ok I'm the only one here that know that she is 16 years old? right? and the OP "still is" a child right?

just to be sure ...

she must be living with here parents duh, I like to here the end of this story [rofl]

**BariGrootrego** · 03-06-2007, 12:01 PM

idk about your problem but i don't think i could take another group of these ^^

**KimLinbert** · 03-06-2007, 12:10 PM

idk about your problem but i don't think i could take another group of these ^^

what this suppose to mean? , seriously. I'll accept PM's too.

**ROYMANgo** · 03-06-2007, 12:19 PM

Don't get your hopes too high, you'll end up fallin' harder.

**parishilton** · 03-06-2007, 02:04 PM

what this suppose to mean? , seriously. I'll accept PM's too.

Ok ok i will keep it short.. yes its another girl 'problem' thread.. my first though ^^ she problably likes me too or she wouldnt chat with me all the time ^^ i well thats this monday^^ uhm about 2hours by car ^^ why ? :P and well there are some guys here who are not browsing this forum 24/7 like you^^ so what are you talking about ? ^^ lol we`ve seen videos of each other and she has a very sweet voice ^^ not the states here^^ thx for the help.. still 1 day to go ^^ Somehow, my post is too short.

**Evsltkzl** · 03-06-2007, 02:16 PM

After reading through all the comments, I feel this one needs more attention.

She might be fat.

Is she fat?

Nothing says I love you more to a girl, that a big tub of ky jelly.

**rostpribru** · 03-06-2007, 06:03 PM

omg this thread is ridiculous^^

ok again its not some weeks its 4month and im 99,9% sure she is who she is

@kentris yeah i know :/

@ horrorwood no she aint

@gez videos sent as files but for example one time she made a video jsut after i said she could do one and it would be big luck for someone having just this type of video she sent me (and no it was that type of video :P)

@Vampirolatino1 yes shes living with her partens and ? we will be outside most of the time anyway ^^

@all no im not posting a picture of her^^ strangely noone asked for that yet^^

btw im feeling a bit excited actually ^^
hey if im not posting here for another 4 days or so please call the police xD

**TainuibeFaimb** · 03-06-2007, 06:48 PM

Look, I read maybe five seconds into your post and I instantly found the problem. It was, in my eyes, like a "Where's Waldo" moment...

See the problem was that you....

met this girl online

and with that...no further comments.

**duawLauff** · 03-06-2007, 07:03 PM

Oh and...
That's why you're asking for dating advice on FM and I'm not.

Sorry to be blunt but it may seem counter-intuitive but it will work.
If it doesn't I'll send you a tenner.

Edit:- Also I can't stress how important it is not to give her the gift.
Put yourself in her position, she has some sap coming up to her trying to buy her effection. Show that you don't need to do these sort of things. Puzzle knows what he is saying.

The problem might be she is good looking but you might just be a dirty ol nerd.

**Obebtetibre** · 03-06-2007, 07:26 PM

Videos sent through file transfer only??? seems a little strange??? and you do realise that people like "that" can have many many video's stored on their PC's in case of such situations??? anyways if you do mange to make it back alive you may well have a sore arse so ye be warned get plenty of lubrication, and also dont forget to "squeel like a piggy" for him, he will probably like that

**Avgustslim** · 03-06-2007, 07:30 PM

I would want some assurance from her parents that they are expecting you. If it were my 16 year old daughter, I better damn well know beforehand if she is having a guy she met on the net over for a 2 day visit.

Before my husband came up to visit me I had already spoken to his parents, grandparents and siblings and we were alot older than the 2 of you.

Dont walk into a situation like this blind. There is plenty here to be suspicious about.

**rostpribru** · 03-07-2007, 03:31 AM

so im off sleeping now ^^ tommorow im driving to her in the morning ^^ wish me luck

wahhhh

**cestsennY** · 03-07-2007, 03:54 AM

see ya in the obituaries dummy

**venediene** · 03-07-2007, 04:05 AM

A 16 year old girl and you are 19? What are you going to drive two hours to get her a happy meal?

**excivaamome** · 03-07-2007, 04:12 AM

A 16 year old girl and you are 19? What are you going to drive two hours to get her a happy meal?

[thumbup] hahaha great... just great

**TimoDass** · 03-07-2007, 04:35 AM

Before my husband came up to visit me I had already spoken to his parents, grandparents and siblings and we were alot older than the 2 of you.

So you married him before you met him?

I recommend that to the OP then. Marry her first, then meet her.

**indianstory** · 03-07-2007, 04:50 AM

A 16 year old girl and you are 19? What are you going to drive two hours to get her a happy meal?

Not sure what your problem is... In germany (actually in most of europe) things go a little different.

02-07-2007, 06:48 AM	#41
BeaseHoca Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 404 Senior Member	At that age, i would be very surprised if she isn't living with her parents. What sort of feedback have you had in that respect? If she is, indeed, living at home, I'd suggest not getting a gift for her - spooky - but rather a simple gift that a house guest may bring, such as wine, flowers or the like. I'm a little concerned about the girls mental state, though, I suspect she's developing a bit of a crush/fixation on you, so be careful. However, if things work out it could be quite wonderful. Good luck and make sure you leave details with your friends/family in case you go missing. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-06-2007, 07:30 AM	#42
qQVXpYM6 Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 413 Senior Member	Is the poster 100% sure this "she" isn't a "he". I would pack some lube just in case. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-06-2007, 08:21 AM	#43
Obebtetibre Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 445 Senior Member	ROFL @ the lube!!!! although meeting up with people you met over the internet is considered quite risky there are certain things etc that can be down etc to minimize risks, i myself am actually planning to visit 2 mates (a guy and his brother and along with some of their mates ive chatted too on numerous occasions) maybe in the summer time, i met them on the internet over 4 years ago now and we regularly chat online and have a laugh, play multiplay games etc (was on multiplay games we all met, BHD i believe it was) and generally get on well like guys should. weve been on Cam to eachother numerous times like so we all know who were talking to etc and often used teamspeak or Skype to chat at the same time so tis a more realistic interaction. in this case i know that these guys are guys and that we get on really well, into Gaming and PC's and Cars etc so throughout the 4 years weve known eachother we have kinda developed a really good friendship. along with getting to know eachother well too over the 4 years. But you have known this supposed "girl" for only a few weeks? if i were you i would give it at least a year before doing somert like going to see her as if it is indeed some old bloke then over the year he might give up or you may catch him out on his lies. you say that youve seen vids? now is that recorded videos sent through file transfer be it on msn or to your phone. Or was it live webcam chat? if it was file transfered then sumerts up as it could well just be some vids he downloaded from somewhere or that "he" recorded one of his "victims" before disposing of them??? live web cam would be very diff, a good idea to do too is get their house phone number, then ring at an unexpected time and see who answers, then ask if whatever her name is available- if she is then she will speak to you and good good? maybe???? but if a man answers and says sorry shes unavailable or stutters or pauses during his answer [no] but meh if u still insist on going without taking the safety measures then yeah leave details with family or watever and tell them dont count on you coming home. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-06-2007, 09:39 AM	#44
KimLinbert Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 457 Senior Member	ok I'm the only one here that know that she is 16 years old? right? and the OP "still is" a child right? just to be sure ... she must be living with here parents duh, I like to here the end of this story [rofl] Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-06-2007, 12:01 PM	#45
BariGrootrego Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 500 Senior Member	idk about your problem but i don't think i could take another group of these ^^ Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-06-2007, 12:10 PM	#46
KimLinbert Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 457 Senior Member	idk about your problem but i don't think i could take another group of these ^^ what this suppose to mean? , seriously. I'll accept PM's too. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-06-2007, 12:19 PM	#47
ROYMANgo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 523 Senior Member	Don't get your hopes too high, you'll end up fallin' harder. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-06-2007, 02:04 PM	#48
parishilton Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 406 Senior Member	what this suppose to mean? , seriously. I'll accept PM's too. Ok ok i will keep it short.. yes its another girl 'problem' thread.. my first though ^^ she problably likes me too or she wouldnt chat with me all the time ^^ i well thats this monday^^ uhm about 2hours by car ^^ why ? :P and well there are some guys here who are not browsing this forum 24/7 like you^^ so what are you talking about ? ^^ lol we`ve seen videos of each other and she has a very sweet voice ^^ not the states here^^ thx for the help.. still 1 day to go ^^ Somehow, my post is too short. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-06-2007, 02:16 PM	#49
Evsltkzl Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 506 Senior Member	After reading through all the comments, I feel this one needs more attention. She might be fat. Is she fat? Nothing says I love you more to a girl, that a big tub of ky jelly. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-06-2007, 06:03 PM	#50
rostpribru Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 497 Senior Member	omg this thread is ridiculous^^ ok again its not some weeks its 4month and im 99,9% sure she is who she is @kentris yeah i know :/ @ horrorwood no she aint @gez videos sent as files but for example one time she made a video jsut after i said she could do one and it would be big luck for someone having just this type of video she sent me (and no it was that type of video :P) @Vampirolatino1 yes shes living with her partens and ? we will be outside most of the time anyway ^^ @all no im not posting a picture of her^^ strangely noone asked for that yet^^ btw im feeling a bit excited actually ^^ hey if im not posting here for another 4 days or so please call the police xD Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-06-2007, 06:48 PM	#51
TainuibeFaimb Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 486 Senior Member	Look, I read maybe five seconds into your post and I instantly found the problem. It was, in my eyes, like a "Where's Waldo" moment... See the problem was that you.... met this girl online and with that...no further comments. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-06-2007, 07:03 PM	#52
duawLauff Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 617 Senior Member	Oh and... That's why you're asking for dating advice on FM and I'm not. Sorry to be blunt but it may seem counter-intuitive but it will work. If it doesn't I'll send you a tenner. Edit:- Also I can't stress how important it is not to give her the gift. Put yourself in her position, she has some sap coming up to her trying to buy her effection. Show that you don't need to do these sort of things. Puzzle knows what he is saying. The problem might be she is good looking but you might just be a dirty ol nerd. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-06-2007, 07:26 PM	#53
Obebtetibre Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 445 Senior Member	Videos sent through file transfer only??? seems a little strange??? and you do realise that people like "that" can have many many video's stored on their PC's in case of such situations??? anyways if you do mange to make it back alive you may well have a sore arse so ye be warned get plenty of lubrication, and also dont forget to "squeel like a piggy" for him, he will probably like that Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-06-2007, 07:30 PM	#54
Avgustslim Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 446 Senior Member	I would want some assurance from her parents that they are expecting you. If it were my 16 year old daughter, I better damn well know beforehand if she is having a guy she met on the net over for a 2 day visit. Before my husband came up to visit me I had already spoken to his parents, grandparents and siblings and we were alot older than the 2 of you. Dont walk into a situation like this blind. There is plenty here to be suspicious about. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-07-2007, 03:31 AM	#55
rostpribru Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 497 Senior Member	so im off sleeping now ^^ tommorow im driving to her in the morning ^^ wish me luck wahhhh Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-07-2007, 03:54 AM	#56
cestsennY Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 390 Senior Member	see ya in the obituaries dummy Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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venediene Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 433 Senior Member	A 16 year old girl and you are 19? What are you going to drive two hours to get her a happy meal? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-07-2007, 04:12 AM	#58
excivaamome Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 381 Senior Member	A 16 year old girl and you are 19? What are you going to drive two hours to get her a happy meal? [thumbup] hahaha great... just great Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-07-2007, 04:35 AM	#59
TimoDass Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 641 Senior Member	Before my husband came up to visit me I had already spoken to his parents, grandparents and siblings and we were alot older than the 2 of you. So you married him before you met him? I recommend that to the OP then. Marry her first, then meet her. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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03-07-2007, 04:50 AM	#60
indianstory Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 532 Senior Member	A 16 year old girl and you are 19? What are you going to drive two hours to get her a happy meal? Not sure what your problem is... In germany (actually in most of europe) things go a little different. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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