[Jffxljtw]

...yay for me! [no]

Its been a rough ride with my gf (now ex gf) for the last couple of months, but at least there was still sex on a regular basis. Now this is gone too... I'm moving out this weekend since I have found a nice apartment.

So, other than the usual pictures of a right hand, what do you guys suggest I should do to get her out of my mind? Partying and meeting other girls is the obvious choice for friday nights, but what to do with the lonely weekend afternoons when all friends do something with their partners/families?

Being single again really doesnt scare me, but the many lonely Sunday afternoons that lie ahead of me now do. I've been with my ex for three years and have forgotten how that feels.

I figured you would break up with her because you frequently post about her. This is a sure sign of instability.

Zeddoo is right though, ***** it up and take some time off.

[soonahonsefalh]

I figured you would break up with her because you frequently post about her. This is a sure sign of instability..

Those who have never been in a lasting relationship with another human being should not comment on the romantic tribulations of others.

[BritneySpearsFun@@@]

Upgrade computer of course.... Saving money as no need for expensive dinner or condoms, so new components are in order, and wire management. I spend hours on this and it takes my mind of everything.

Good luck dude...

[U2DnBGFE]

Those who have never been in a lasting relationship with another human being should not comment on the romantic tribulations of others.

Another human being, key phrase. In other words, shut up.

[Sniliabiz]

Another human being, key phrase. In other words, shut up.

I agree. He's probably never been in a relationship.

[Nypbscao]

I agree. He's probably never been in a relationship.

There is one explanation: he has deluded himself to the point where he believes that he is more than one person.

Also, he thinks he is approaching the level of Nietzsche.

[Adamdjeffe]

I never got this, I've always had more fun with women than with men.

Then I truly feel sorry for you. Friendship with other guys is essential to being emotionally healthy and happy, IMO.
http://artofmanliness.com/2009/06/06...an-old-friend/ I think makes my point pretty well.

[Byxtysaaqwuz]

Another human being, key phrase. In other words, shut up.

"To know and love another human being is the root of all wisdom." - Evelyn Waugh

For once I am not being glib. I think it is rather sad you are incapable of forming a deep, long lasting relationship with another person, and even pretend to be proud of it.

Also, you've never read Nietzsche, and you couldn't if you tried.

[brorwargy]

"To know and love another human being is the root of all wisdom." - Evelyn Waugh

For once I am not being glib. I think it is rather sad you are incapable of forming a deep, long lasting relationship with another person, and even pretend to be proud of it.

Also, you've never read Nietzsche, and you couldn't if you tried.

Such accusations from someone who spends more time reading other people's life stories than experiencing their own.

I know...

[U5pz6B71]

"To know and love another human being is the root of all wisdom." - Evelyn Waugh

For once I am not being glib. I think it is rather sad you are incapable of forming a deep, long lasting relationship with another person, and even pretend to be proud of it.

Also, you've never read Nietzsche, and you couldn't if you tried.

You really have not being the smartest guy in the room, don't you?

[werkeeque]

Such accusations from someone who spends more time reading other people's life stories than experiencing their own.

I know...

Says the little man who watches Avatar porn and owns two fleshlites.

[RemiVedia]

Says the little man who watches Avatar porn and owns two fleshlites.

Actually, I don't. But now you said it [chin]

[Narkeere]

wow Ive been waiting for this day.

fancy a good ole finger bumming ?

[trilochana.nejman]

...yay for me! [no]

Its been a rough ride with my gf (now ex gf) for the last couple of months, but at least there was still sex on a regular basis. Now this is gone too... I'm moving out this weekend since I have found a nice apartment.

So, other than the usual pictures of a right hand, what do you guys suggest I should do to get her out of my mind? Partying and meeting other girls is the obvious choice for friday nights, but what to do with the lonely weekend afternoons when all friends do something with their partners/families?

Being single again really doesnt scare me, but the many lonely Sunday afternoons that lie ahead of me now do. I've been with my ex for three years and have forgotten how that feels.

Best advice i can give you, is don't listen to the majority of people in this thread. You'll either turn into a womanising loner or a pompous bore. Neither of which is going to help you.

Do what you want to do. If you now have lots of free time, think about doing those things you never had time to before. Whatever makes you happy, it's time to be a bit a selfish. [yes]

EDIT:

My friend split up with his GF of 4 years last year, after some thinking, drinking and wailing, he decided to take up sky diving, he now goes every weekend and has enough experience to jump on his own, he's also not single anymore and was lucky enough to meet a lady skydiver.

[LoveTTatall]

"To know and love another human being is the root of all wisdom." - Evelyn Waugh

For once I am not being glib. I think it is rather sad you are incapable of forming a deep, long lasting relationship with another person, and even pretend to be proud of it.

Also, you've never read Nietzsche, and you couldn't if you tried.

lol i don´t think Streifenkarl needs your pity frenchy,..

[FYIbiatches]

My friend split up with his GF of 4 years last year, after some thinking, drinking and wailing, he decided to take up sky diving, he now goes every weekend and has enough experience to jump on his own, he's also not single anymore and was lucky enough to meet a lady skydiver.

That actually sounds horrible. In order to deal with breaking up with a woman, your friend had to take up a hobby that involves jumping out of a plane at 10,000+ feet on a weekly basis. I understand breakups can be tough, but resorting to putting your life in danger because some bitch doesn't want to be with you is entirely the wrong approach. If you are self-confident and like what you have become, you have a much better chance of meeting someone that will match your personality and want to be with you for who you are.

[Justlovemy]

That actually sounds horrible. In order to deal with breaking up with a woman, your friend had to take up a hobby that involves jumping out of a plane at 10,000+ feet on a weekly basis. I understand breakups can be tough, but resorting to putting your life in danger because some bitch doesn't want to be with you is entirely the wrong approach. If you are self-confident and like what you have become, you have a much better chance of meeting someone that will match your personality and want to be with you for who you are.

Well first off, there's more chance of you dying in a car crash, than from a jump going wrong. 2nd, you're over analysing. It was just something he'd wanted to do for a long time, but previously didn't have the spare time to do it, after his split he did. This wasn't about getting over the girl, it was about filling his time with something that makes him happy and that he really wants to do.

EDIT:

Oh and believe me, it's probably the most exhilarating thing you can do, i've had two jumps myself, first one was a tandem and the second from a static line. It's a rush that nothing else can compare to, and i've had few rushes in my time.

[Prealiitellg]

Oh and believe me, it's probably the most exhilarating thing you can do, i've had two jumps myself, first one was a tandem and the second from a static line. It's a rush that nothing else can compare to, and i've had few rushes in my time.

Ever done Acid ?

[Pdarassenko]

Just go and live yer life and enjoy yourself, it'll all turn out just fine, another woman, who knows, theres bloody millions of em!

Sadly my wife lives 500 miles away at the mo, but fl*******s rule : )

[Xlkl9SFd]

lol i don´t think Streifenkarl needs your pity frenchy,..

Talking about himself is the best form of discussing other people that Frenchie can provide.