[Rellshare]

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[tactWeiccaf]

I know that its sunnah to smile.... so can a male smile at a female vice versa?

Nope. sunnah to smile, fardh to observe hijaab.

[tactWeiccaf]

This applies to forums also ?

No.

[MadMark]

Salaam Bro
Im confused! What is taqwa? and Haya?

Taqwa = God Awareness, or Fear of Allah.
Haya = Modesty.

[alexbookhyip]

This applies to forums also ?

Yes it does and not in any sense less than as it applies in general..

[alexbookhyip]

Can someone please comment on this pious thought?

Be the change you want to see in the world..

[oranowdenda]

[alexbookhyip]

i wonder if people realise how irritating it is when they talk urdu on the forum.... it makes one want to go to the extent of using smileys.

What he means is that we are making fun of him.

[oranowdenda]

What he means is that we are making fun of him.

yes that is why I have deleted my post and you delete yours plz

[alexbookhyip]

Brother i love you for the sake of Allah. I was just having a lil fun, seems ur too sensitive.Sorry if u fell bad.

[oranowdenda]

shakibhat and shoaib delete all your irrelevant posts from this thread

[tactWeiccaf]

I think nothing said was meant to hurt anyone, all just good natured fun. Anyway im deleting my post (about the urdu) coz its off-topic. And i request everyone do the same please.

@everyone
i'm sorry if my post has hurt or offended any of you.

[gettoblaster]

Okay so from what you have said.... correct me if im wrong... but its wrong for female to smile and male and male to smile at female?
Also if a female smiles at female its sunnah and male smiles at male its sunnah?
JZK WS

Let's clarify the crux:

- It's not permissible for men to look at/stay/talk with a woman who is not his mehram (i.e. Islamically not permitted to interact with her freely) and vice versa.

- So, if anyone smiles at others of opposite gender with whom he/she is not permitted to interact with, this will violate the obligatory rule.

- But in case of permitted persons, smiling is necessary because it is a Sunnah.

[gettoblaster]

This applies to forums also ?

Shuaib bhai,

It is a matter of taqwa. You know, Moulana Taliban and many other members like him abandoned this forum for gender mixing in discussions.
Allaah knows when I'll also be an "inactive" member.

[gettoblaster]

Ohh okay I get it now JZK.
Also im pakistani and in our culture we chill with our fam so cousins aunts uncle etc... so there is free mixing with family.. I knw that free mixing is haram... so ..... its haram for me to chill with my male cousins?

Definitely.

If so what would you suggest I do?
I cant exactly NOT chill Otherwise I would be the loner on the side... Because its something EVERYONE does? Our would U suggest I go sit alone to avoid haram? I live in Bangladesh. So the culture is same here. I don't live at my home. So it's not a problem for me to avoid non-mehram female relatives. But when I go home during vacation, then I face the trouble.
I don't go in front of them willingly. When they come to me and ask anything, I look at the ground and try to give the shortest answer. My attitude proves that I'm feeling uncomfort. So they don't bother me further. I think you should proceed in this way.

Some strong suggestions of mine:

- Start covering yourself with veil.

- Stop all types of interactions with male cousins gradually.

- Increase relationship with female relatives so that they can not think that you've stopped connections with them.

- Read Islamic books and tell others about what you've read.

[Precturge]

Shuaib bhai,

It is a matter of taqwa. You know, Moulana Taliban and many other members like him abandoned this forum for gender mixing in discussions.
Allaah knows when I'll also be an "inactive" member.

You are forbidden to go down before me.
Wassalam

[MizzDaizzy]

Respected Bhai logs.
I thought of making taqwa department ..
Hamney soncha chalo apno ko apney rab se .log to hamara mazak managaye mere moula....

What i can say more "just have a look on my signature"

I think u want to writ jhinjhodte.
Well brother shakibbhat write more for modesty in his signature.
In the forum, i think not only we should avoid smileys to opposite gender but also avoid unnecessary reply with quote to avoid direct discussions.
It is a problem facing muslims in our society like me that if we avoid joking, gathering with cousins of opposite sex, it is supposed that we are rude, proud or non-social. Yet we should try it atleast gradually

[Uhmavano]

And my manager, in annual performance review mentions that I do not interact, co-ordinate with ladies..

[alexbookhyip]

Brother,

Have as much as

I will take revenge on the day of judgment okay..

Let's meet on the day of qayamath..
sometimes i feel its very important to put smileys to show expressions otherwise people think im very sensitive, anger person

I am seriously scared!!